19 Top Factors That Make Most People Not to like the Works at the Level of Their Dreams: Part 1

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19 Top Factors That Make Most People Not to like the Works at the Level of Their Dreams: Part 1

There are some factors that are contributing to the behavior or habit of not liking the works at the level of your dream or dreams. This article is focus on knowing the reasons why most people do not like the works at the level of their dreams. But the truth is that, if you are not interested in the works at the level of your dreams, it means that, you do not want to achieve such dreams. Another truth is that. If you do not like the works at the level of your dreams, it means you are lowering your expectations or your dreams or your target unknowingly. Here, are some of the factors that make most people not to like the works at the level of their dreams:

1.     The work is too difficult or too distasteful or too depressing: It is often said that, ‘Into every works simple or difficult, one should give in the best.’ But, most people choose the works they want to give in the best. This means that, the actions of most people are often in conflict with or contradict the above success anthem. Most often or very often, people actions do not correspond with their desires.

Why because, most people do see the works at the level of their dreams to be too difficult or too distasteful or too depressing, that is why, they tend to avoid or dodge or ignore or forget or neglect those works. 

The more people perceive their works or duties or responsibilities like this, the more they choose the less important thing and the less they go for the important thing. This also make people not to always get or set their priorities right.

When your priority is not always right, you will end up doing what you are not supposed to be doing. So, one reason or factor that is making most people not to like the works at the level of their dreams or cherished purpose is pampering or over-pampering.

2.     Pampering/self-pampering/over-pampering: Pampering is the act of indulging or gratifying a desire. It is gratifying tastes, appetites, or desires. Going by the meaning of pampering here, you can see that, pampering entails pleasing yourself or oneself too unnecessary. 

When you are busy trying to gratify a wrong desire or a less important desire, you will tend not to pay attention to the main thing or the important thing. Most times, people make the mistake of making the less important thing or the wrong thing or the unnecessary thing to be the major or main thing or the important thing. And as such, they wrongly go after or chase those things they considered most.

Pampering or over-pampering tends to weakens one’s strength both physically and mentally. It also make people to be lazy in doing certain things or works. Pampering is one of the thing that is making most people not to like the works at the level of their dreams or cherished purpose.

3.     Fear/intimidation: Fear is an emotion experience in anticipation of some specific pain or danger (usually accompanied by a desire to flee or fight). Intimidation is the feeling of being intimidated; being made to feel afraid or timid. The works at the level of most people dreams are difficult or very difficult. 

Soft people tend to fear the works at the level of their cherished purpose because the works are intimidating. They are not always ready; that is why soft people cannot and do not always win their wars. Fear or intimidation is making people to make or take wrong decisions. Tough people are not afraid of the works at the level of their dreams.

They are always ready to face the risks. But soft people are often govern by fear and intimidation. And that is why they are not prepared or ready to face the risks. Most people tend to fear the work at the level of their dreams because of fear or intimidation. This make fear or intimidation one of the factors why most people do not like the works at the level of their dreams.  

4.     Self-doubt/Self-distrust/doubt: Self-distrust or self-doubt is lack of self-confidence. It is synonymous with hesitance, hesitancy, unassertiveness, timidity, timidness, timorousness. Doubt is the state of being unsure of something. When you are doubting yourself, you will lose your confidence. When you lose your confidence, you will not be able to do what you can really do. 

Doubt or self-doubt weakens your mind and strength. You will end up not being able to resist your resistances or flimsy excuses. When you begin to doubt yourself, you will start to dislike certain things. You will start avoiding certain works.

The more you are doubting yourself, the more you will be doubting your dreams. And the more, you doubt your dreams, the more you detest certain works. Many people tend to dislike the works at the level of their dreams because of self-doubt or self-distrust or doubt.

5.     Incompetency: Competency is the quality of being adequately or well qualified physically and intellectually. It is the state of being competent; fitness; ability; adequacy; and power. The word competent means properly or sufficiently qualified or capable or efficient. It means answering to all requirements; adequate; sufficient; suitable; capable; legally qualified; fit; able; endowed; adapted; qualified. 

Given the meanings of competency above, you can see that, when you have competency, you can go through your problems. You can face adversities or difficult times without giving up on your dream or on hope or on yourself.

The quality called competency enables you to solve your problems because you are strong and capable to do what you should do and be doing. The competency to handle adversities or hard times and to do what you are supposed to do, is one thing that makes people to overcome their difficulties.

But if you are not competent, instead of your life to be improving, by overcoming challenges on your path, your life will become stagnant because you cannot tackle your problems. Incompetency of people is one of the reason why many people do not like the works at the level of their dreams.

6.     Lack of skills: Skill is an ability that has been acquired by training. It is the ability to produce solution in some problem domain. Being able to solve your problem means you have skills. When you have skills, you can tackle your problem as soon as those problem pop up. You can overcome your difficulty when you have skills. Except for real impossibilities, with your skills, you can surmount your major problems. 

When you have a skill or skills, you can surmount any challenge, and you will be able to go through your problems. It is your skill or skills that help to make your life just to keep getting better and better. Without having a skill or skills, it will be too difficult to face or handle your problems, because you cannot be able to solve or find solutions to your problems. Sometimes, people go around their problems because of lack of skills.

In the face of difficulty, many people are desisting because they lack skills. When you have a skill or skills, you will be able to solve much of your problems, or go through your problems. With your skills, you turn your problems into blessings. The lack of skills is one factor that is making people to dislike the works at the level of their dreams. When you have skill, it empowers you to be able cope or handle your problems. Learn to have a skill or skills it will help you to grow.

7.     Laziness: Laziness is the inactivity resulting from a dislike of work. Laziness is a vice. It limits people from achieving their heart cherished desires. The habit of indisposition to action or disinclination to work is a feature of laziness. Laziness make people to form the habit of neglecting or dodging or ignoring or forgetting their responsibilities or duties. 

Laziness deprives people of their successes. When you are lazy, definitely, you will not like to do work. You will prefer your pleasure before your duty. This is misplacement of priority. This happened, because of laziness. Laziness is one of the factors which make most people not to like the works at the level of their dreams or cherished purposes.

8.     Negative thought: Negative thought of people is hindering them from making the right choices. When your thought is negative, your actions tends to be negative as well. People’s thought often determine their actions. Your thought can make what is good to be seen as bad and what is bad to be seen as good. 

Most people do not often think deeply before making their decisions. Negative thought process can block your chances of gaining the throne or the crown. Most people are not willing to pay the price because of their negative thoughts. The actions of people confirm their thought.

If people dislike the works at the level of their dreams, it is because, they are govern by their negative thoughts. The negative thought of people is making them not to like the works at the level of their dreams.

9.     Soft principle, ‘Love what you do’: Love what you do, is another soft principle. It means go or chase after the things you love. It also means love the action you have taken. This principle is conflicting with what you are supposed to do and should do. It is a follow up to the principle, ‘Do what you love.’ They are similar but not the same. The first is about choice, and this is about chasing after the choice that you have made. 

People tend to go after their choices or they chase after what they choose. This is why many people chase after the less important things that they have no time going after the important or much important things. The question here is, what you do is it the main thing? Or is it what you are supposed to be doing? Or is it what you must do? If what you do, is not the main thing or is not what you supposed to do and should do, then, this principle is not an effective one.

This means that, ‘Love what you do’ is a distraction. How can you make your dream come true when what you are doing is not what you supposed to do and should do and must do? There is a huge difference between what you do and what you must do or should do or supposed to do. Most people do what pleases them and what does not please them, they avoid. What you must do may not be pleasing to you, but avoiding them will prevent you from succeeding or getting to the top or making your dream come through.

This principle is one of the factors that is making most people not to like the works at the level of their cherished purpose. Instead of ‘love what you do,’ I prefer, ‘Love what you must do’ or ‘love what you should do’ or ‘love what you supposed to do.’    

10. Negative confession: Negative confession is a communication that makes you afraid to try something. It is an intimidation that tend to limit you from trying something. The negative confession of people is intimidating them from doing what they are supposed to do. On daily basis, people confess negatively than positively. When your confession is a negative one, it will affect your actions.

Nobody can go or do above his or her confessions. The more people engage in negative confession, the more they avoid their works. And the more they complain. Negative confession is making people to perform below their capabilities. It makes people not to have interest in doing certain things or somethings. 

The confessions of people make them to become lazy in taking actions to solve their problems. Negative confessions are source of distraction. They distract you or people from what they are supposed to do and should do. And make them to pick interest in doing what they are not supposed to do.

Negative confession of people is intimidating them and making them not to like the works at the level of their dreams.

Happy reading.