12 Ways to Make your Life Sweet

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12 Ways to Make your Life Sweet

You can make your life sweet and as well make it bitter. It is your choice. If I or you want to make our lives sweet, what is the way out to make it happen or come real? There are certain things that make people happy but the happiness is short lived. They only carry or involve flitting or brief pleasure. But there are things which really carry or involve durable pleasure. The emphasis here, is on those things which actually make life sweet. Below are some of the ways to make your life sweet:

1.     Persist and be persistent in your endeavor: The word persist means, be persistent, and refuse to stop. The word persistent means never-ceasing. It is stubbornly unyielding. While the word endeavor means, a purposeful or industrious undertaking (especially one that requires effort or boldness). It is an earnest and conscientious activity intended to do or accomplish something. It is an attempt by employing effort. When you want to achieve something or a desire, your persistent endeavor is critical in helping you to gain that thing or desire.

Persistent endeavor make you to be consistent and constant in doing the things intended or required to accomplish a goal or a purpose or a desire or a dream. It is only when you are persistent in doing the things you are supposed to do and should do and must do that you can gain success. The more persistent you are in your endeavor, the more you gain your intended purposes. Your persistent effort makes you stay strong and thus, make your mind stable.

To make your life sweet, instead of desisting from what you are meant to do, or must do and supposed to do and should do, persist in doing what you are meant to do or must do and supposed to do and should do. Until, you persist, your life will keep getting bitter and bitter. So, to make your life sweet for real, persist and persist and persist and be persistent in your endeavor.

2.     Go through your problems: There is a leaning for most people to go around their problems instead of going through. When you are going around your problems, you will not be able to solve the problems. You may become inactive and even become lazy. You will complain very much when you have not reached the end of your strength. Going around your problems is equal to ignoring or forgetting or escape or evasion or dodging or avoiding you responsibilities.

The more you keep going around your problems, the more the works or duties or responsibilities is left unattended to. And the more, you will never attain your victory. Very often, most people keep making their lives bitter by going around their problems. If you must make your life sweet, you must learn to stop going around your problems and learn to go through.

The term go through means to go or live through. It is to pursue to a conclusion or bring to a successful end. Until, you are able to keep going through the problems, it will be difficult for you to make your life sweet. To really make your life sweet, always go through your problems.  

3.     Resist your excuses: The term resist means to stand up or offer resistance to somebody or something. It is to express opposition through action or words. It is to withstand the force of something. It is to refuse to comply. The word excuse on the other hand means to serve as a reason or cause or justification of.  Anything which tends to prevent or hinder you from taking action or step to do something is call excuse.

Excuses are things which tries to discourage you in doing what you are supposed to do. They come in different form, such as these; ‘Do you think you do it’? Or ‘Can’t you leave it till tomorrow’? Or ‘Why not leave it till later’? Just to mention but these.  These excuses are negative forces within the individual that often try to limit the person whose mind is filled with these excuses.

You can resist your excuses by refusing those excuses to rule over you. When your excuses dominate you, you will lose your focus and bearing and direction. You will not be able to rise up to the occasion and do what you must do.  To make your life sweet. You need to be able to resist your excuses. Your negative excuses are distractions if you give in to them.

4.     Do the work with all your heart and all your mind: It is the call of the heart for people to do the work with all their heart and all their mind. The work is what you must do and what you are supposed to do and what you should do. The term heart means the locus of feelings and intuitions. It is the courage to carry on. It is an inclination or tendency of a certain kind. It is a positive feelings of liking. 

The word mind means that which is responsible for one’s thought and feelings; the seat of the faculty of reason. It is to be concerned with or about something or somebody. It is to be in charge of, or deal with. It is to pay close attention to; give head to. It is attention. It is your intention; what you intend to do. It is to keep in mind. 

Looking at the meanings of the word heart and mind in relation to the work, doing the work with all your heart and mind means that the work is of top priority and it should be hold so and kept so. When you cannot do the work that counts with all your heart and mind, it simply means that, you are not ready to do the needful.

Most people do not get to achieve their heart desires or intentions because they are not always ready to do their works with all their heart and mind. And that is why, their lives are not going in the direction, they actually and really love. To make your life sweet, you must always ‘Do the work that counts with all your heart and all your mind’.

5.     Do not give up on yourself and on hope and on your dream: To give up means give up with the intent of never claiming again. It is to give up in the face of defeat of lacking hope; admit defeat. It is to put an end to a state or an activity. When you give up on yourself and on hope and on your dream, you will lose all you have got to give to gain the throne. Giving up on yourself takes away your gift of yourself to yourself from yourself. Because you are all you need to give.

If you cannot give yourself to what you want achieve, you would not be able to achieve that thing. When you give up on yourself, it will affect your hope and your dream and you will not be able to do the works or things you are supposed to do and should do and must do to gain your dream or make your dream come through. 

The single reason, many people are in the sad conditions they find themselves today is that, they quickly give up on themselves and on hope and on their dreams. The truth is when you give up on yourself, you will definitely give up on God. To make your life sweet, refuse to give up on yourself and on hope and on your dream no matter how long it takes to make your dream come true.

6.     Put happiness or joy or pleasure into your work or what you supposed to do: Most people do not like to put happiness or joy or pleasure into what they are supposed to do and should do. They take the pleasure in complaining about the work and often end up not doing the work or not doing it well. When you cannot put happiness or joy or pleasure into your work or what you supposed to do, the tendency to be distracted by other less or lesser things is very high.

By so doing, you will frequently lose focus of what you are supposed to do. One reason why lots of people give divided or less attention to their works is that, they are not putting happiness or joy into their works or what they are supposed to do.  When you are putting happiness or joy or pleasure into your work or what you supposed to do, it gives you more strength and make you to bring out or bring in your best into such works. 

It motivates you to do the work properly or rather well. If you cannot do the work properly or rather well, you will hardly gain the gain or gain the treasure. To make your life sweet, learn to put happiness or joy or pleasure into your work or what you supposed to do.  

7.     Stop chasing your corrupt passions: Most times, most people prefer chasing their corrupt passions more than what they are supposed to be chasing. By chasing your corrupt passions, you will derive pleasure in ignoring or forgetting or neglecting your responsibilities. When your corrupt passions dominates your chasing, you will have no time chasing what you are supposed to be chasing. 

Most times, people chase their corrupt passions because of self-deceptions or illusions. The more you chase your corrupt passions, the more you stand to lose your crown. To make your life sweet, you must learn to stop chasing your corrupt passions and go after what you supposed to go after.

8.     Observing: The word observing means quick to notice; showing quick and keen perception. Observing helps you to take quick notice of what is going on around you in terms of their effects or advantages and disadvantages. It helps you to show quick and keen understanding of happenings or events or situations which you find yourself. 

Observing things around you, of what people are doing and how they are doing their things. And the result of what they are doing. This will help you to know what to do about your own situation. Observing helps you to do series of filtering of the insights of what you are observing. Without observing, you will fall victim of doing what you are not supposed to do and what you are supposed to do, you will not be doing them.

Observing is a serious work and a hard one for that matter. Most people do not have the time to keenly observe what people are doing and the impact of what they are doing in their lives. When you take your time to observe things or actions or activities going on around you, you will quickly know what to be avoiding, and what to be doing, that will help you to make your highest purpose come through. Most people keep repeating the same mistakes of other people because of lack of observing.

People keep doing over and over again the things that often bring them down because of the lack of observing. Observing helps you to proper analysis of your next action based on the current events or happenings. This helps you to be more focus on what you are supposed to do and be doing. To make your life sweet, observing is necessary and essential and vital and critical.

9.     Learning: The word learning means a cognitive process of acquiring skills, knowledge or appreciation or attitude. To fulfil one’s dream, there is the need for learning. It is through learning that one will be able to acquire skills and knowledge and appreciation and attitude that can help him or her on the way to the top or to gain his or her heart desire or dream. 

When you do not have the necessary skills and knowledge and appreciation and attitude, you will lack the competencies or abilities to do and solve your problems. When you cannot solve your problems as a result of lack of learning or poor learning, your life will always be miserable. Without acquiring skills, knowledge, appreciation and attitude, you will be really far from gaining your cherished desire.

Learning helps to better our lives and helps in making our dreams come through. Truly, to make your life sweet, you need to learn and learn and keep learning what you are supposed to be learning. You are not meant to learn everything but what you are supposed to learn and should learn and must learn that makes you better than your previous self. It is this particular learning that is talked about here. Learning helps you to flow and grow. So keep learning, if you must make your life sweet.

10. Attempting: Attempting is the making of an effort or an attempt at doing something. It is the earnest and conscientious activity intended to do or accomplish something, it involved striving or struggling or seeking to gain something. It is the willingness or effort to carry out or tackle the activity intended to accomplish your goals or purposes or your desires.

You cannot win your wars or battles when you do not want to make attempt at it. You need to make attempt and keep making the attempt to overcome what you want to overcome and to gain the victory you are craving for. 

If you cannot attempt or make attempt at what you supposed to do, stop complaining. Your complaining has no merit, even God would not listen to such complain. To make your life sweet, attempting is key and very crucial.

11.  Daring: Daring is the trait of being willing to undertake or carry out things that involve risk or danger. It is the willingness to undertake or carry out or execute things that required great hardiness of heart. It is the readiness to face or tackle or deal with difficulty or special difficulty of things that you supposed to do or face. If you are not daring and daring, you will not get to the top. 

There are certain difficult or special difficult works attached to people dreams and they must be ready or willing to do or face such works. Such works requires great hardiness of heart to be able to do them or tackle them. If you lack such great hardiness of heart, you will not be interested in doing the works of such nature.

And that is why, most people do not get to achieve their dreams. To make your life sweet, you need this quality called daring. Soft people cannot win their wars or battles because they are not daring. It is very easy to bring your dream home when you are daring.

12.  Generosity to self (What I give, I gain): This principle ‘what I give, I gain’, is the act of being generous to oneself. What you give is what you will gain. What can I give, and I will gain? You can give your concentration, attention, effort, time, energy, determination, commitment, strength, your life, interest, focus, loyalty, love and sacrifice. All these you can give to gain something in return. 

You give out the above mention variables into your works. You give in the best to gain the best. If you give little to get or gain the best or to gain much is not possible. It is what you sow, that you reap. If you sow sparingly, you will reap sparingly but if sow abundantly, you will reap abundantly. The reason many people are suffering in the world is that they are not generous to themselves.

That is also why many people love dodging certain works because they think that those works are unpleasant or difficult or depressing or distasteful. The truth is that, what you give, you gain. To make your life sweet, learn to be generous to yourself by giving in concentration and consecration and loyalty and consistency and sacrifice into your works.

There are many things that make one’s life bitter more than sweet and there are somethings that really or actually make one’s life sweet all the way. Some of those things that can make your life sweet are the variables discussed about. Study carefully and be enrich.