When Life Puts You in a Tough Situation: 11 Reasons Why You Should Say ‘Try Me’ or Stay Strong or Remain Stable

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When Life Puts You in a Tough Situation: 11 Reasons Why You Should Say ‘Try Me’ or Stay Strong or Remain Stable

Life will always put you and others in a tough situations. Everyone is experiencing or facing it. The truth is that no one is a lone in this experiences. Everyone is passing through hell in their lives that you may not know. Do you expect people to be broadcasting their problems before you know they have one problem or the other? Everyone is passing through tough situation, so you are not the only one in it. Even the rich, also experiences tough situations. The question here is, how can you fight the situation or cope with the situation. Here are some reasons, when life puts you in a tough situation why you should say ‘Try me’ or stay strong or remain stable:

1.    To keep you going: When life puts you in a tough situation, why do need to stay strong? You need to stay strong in order to help you to keep going. In the face of tough situation, many people will stop going forward. Their best option will be to back out from the race or to stop fighting their battle. One aspect of tough situation you may experience is defeats. But defeats are learning tools as well.

Since, defeats are learning tools, in the face of ten thousand defeats keep going and if you are going through hell keep going. During tough situation, why you need to stay strong is to help you to keep going. It is only when you are strong that you can keep going. When life puts you in a tough situation, stay strong to keep going instead of pitying yourself.

2.     To face the risk or face all you have to face: Facing the risk or facing all you have to face, is a quality of toughminded people. Tough people face the risk or face all they have to face. Soft people cannot do this. You cannot be able to face the risk when you are not stable in your mind. It only when you stay or remain strong that you can face all that you have to face.

When life puts you in a tough situation, instead of evasion or evading or dodging or escape, stay strong and face the risk or face all you have to face. When you stay strong, your interest will only be on facing the risk but when you give in to complaining and self-pitying, your interest will be to avoid or escape and by so doing, you will not be able to transform your suffering into joy or success.

3.    To become stronger or tougher: Only tough people last. That is true. Tough times do not last but only tough people do. Why do you need to stay strong when life puts you in a tough situation? Is to become tougher. When you remain stable or stay strong in a tough situation, the situation will make you to become tougher. It is often said that, when the going become tough, only the tough get or keep going.

In a tough situation, the strong become stronger or the tough become tougher while the soft become softer or the weak become weaker. One reason why you need to stay strong in a tough situation is to make you become stronger or tougher. When you are stable in a tough situation, it will hardly cross your mind to give up or quit chasing your dream.

Your focus tend to increase because you have become more tough or tougher. So, when life puts you in a tough situation, instead of you becoming weaker as result giving in to self-pity choose to remain stable to get or become stronger or tougher.

4.     To remind you that you are born to win: The one thing that will remind you that you are born to win is when you find yourself in a tough situation. It is in suffering or in difficult time or in tough situation that you will find out or discover yourself or who you are. The truth is that tough time or tough situation is to serve as a reminder that you are not born to lose but born to win or to succeed.

No matter how hard life punches you, you are to remain stable or stay strong and keep striving and keep going. How do you remind yourself that you are born to succeed in a tough situation? You can remind yourself that you are born to succeed by your strong and positive self- confession and by facing all that you have to face, and not by escape.

Always remind yourself that you are born to succeed or win, when you find yourself in a tough situation. So, when life puts you in a tough situation, instead of allowing self-pity to govern you, choose to stay strong to remind yourself that you are to win or succeed.

5.     To keep or maintain or gain your focus: Most people in the face of tough situation, often lose their focus and this goes to show that, most people are not competent enough to handle tough situations. In such cases, what follows is loss of focus. When you lose your focus, you will either be going around your problems or evading or dodging or avoiding such difficult or unpleasant things that you are supposed to do.

When life puts you in a tough situation, and self-pity is ruling you, you easily tend to lose focus of what you should do and supposed to do and must do. But, when you stay strong or remain stable, it helps you to keep or maintain or gain your focus.

6.    To maintain and keep your consecration: Consecration is the act of doing the things that you are supposed to be doing. Consecration is a solemn commitment of your life or time to some cherished purpose (to a service or a goal). It is dedication or devotion to duty. Commitment is the trait of sincere and steadfast fixity of purpose. It is the act of binding yourself (intellectually and emotionally) to a course of action. When you have a cherished purpose to pursue and catch, you need consecration to be able to do just that.

A study of the meaning of consecration reveals that consecration of time or life is to some cherished purpose or desire. Here, the emphasis is on cherished purpose and not less important things. Cherished purpose is quite different from our other desires.

But most people make the mistake of applying their consecration, to other of their desires and have no time for their cherished purpose. When life puts you in a tough situation, and you give in to self-pity, your consecration of life and time to your duties or works or responsibilities will become low and thin and poor, this weakens your strength.

This is why many people lives remain stagnant. But the truth is that consecration to some cherished purpose is very powerful. It strengthens you and helps you to improve your life more and steady and gain the object in view or your cherished purposes or cherished desires.

When life puts you in a tough situation, and you stay strong or remain stable, your consecration of life or time to your cherished purposes become high and strong enough, it will make your powers of action or strength to rise and equal your dreams. To gain your dreams or to succeed, you need consecration. It strengthens your strength or increases your powers of action. And helps you to achieve your dreams no matter how long it takes.

When life puts you in a tough situation, instead of allowing self-pity to dominate you, choose to stay strong to maintain your consecration. One thing you will need to be doing to succeed, no matter how long it takes is to maintain and keep the consecration. This happen when you stay strong or remain stable.

7.     To sustain and keep the Concentration: Concentration is a great and constant diligence and attention. It is showing or giving complete attention; intense mental effort. Diligence is a conscientiousness in paying proper attention to a task; giving the degree of care required in a given situation. It is the quality of being diligent; carefulness, careful attention; - the opposite of negligence.

It is an interested and persevering application; devoted and painstaking effort to accomplish what is undertaken; assiduity in service. It is persevering determination to perform a task. It is a diligent effort. That is hard working.  Your diligence must be a great and constant one and not one time activity. Likewise, your attention to duty. This is the concern of concentration. Your concentration to a task or work or duty or to what is undertaken.

Concentration is not about giving proper attention to one activity, and then improper or divided attention to another activity or task or duty. Concentration is about giving a great and constant proper attention to a task or any work or duty or what is undertaken by you which are very necessary in achieving your purpose.

When life puts you in tough situation, and you give in to self-pity, your concentration to your duties or works or tasks or responsibilities will become low and thin and poor, it weakens your strength and forces or makes your powers of action or strength to become lower and lower. This leads to loss of concentration. And your dream or cherished desire will be very difficult to attain.  

Anytime you are doing anything worth doing, it is expected or required of you to pay or give great and constant proper attention to it. When life puts you in a tough situation, rather than giving in to self-pity or crying why me, choose to stay strong to sustain your concentration. Concentration to duties or works makes your powers of action to increase or strengthens your strength and thus, helps you to achieve the object in view or your dream or cherished desire faster and make your life better and better.

What you can do to succeed, no matter how long takes is to keep you concentration. For sure, your concentration will make you to succeed no matter how long it takes. This happen when you stay strong or remain stable in the face of tough situation.

8.     You can do what is possible because you see opportunities and possibilities: When you are stable, you can do what is possible because you can see opportunities and possibilities inside your tough situation. Most people tend to see impossibilities in the face of tough situation. Self-pity would not give you the chance or opportunity to do what is possible. Because you will find it difficult to see opportunities and possibilities in the face of tough situation.

When life puts you in a tough situation, instead of giving self-pity the power to torment you, why not choose to stay strong or remain stable. When you stay strong, you will be empowered to do what is possible because you see opportunities and possibilities in your tough situation.

The more you stay strong, the more you see opportunities and the more you see opportunities, the more you see possibilities. And the more you see possibilities, the more you will do what is possible. The more you do what is possible, the more you will catch your dream or make your dream come through.

9.     To bring out the best in you: When life puts you in a tough situation, one thing that will prevent you from bring out the best in you is your self-pity. Self-pity affects the mind negatively and increases your fear. And by so doing, you will not be able to face your deepest fear. Self-pity limits you by weakening your strength. And then change your focus to a lesser thing. In a tough situation, most people do not choose to be powerful, they choose to be pitiful.

When life puts you in a tough situation, choose to be powerful, not pitiful. By staying strong, you will be able to bring out the best in you and give in the best into your work. When your mind is stable, instead of going around problems, you will be going through your problems.

People tend to achieve their dreams faster when they choose to stay strong in the face of tough time. So, when life puts you in a tough situation, stay strong to bring out the best in you and to bring the best into your work.

10.  You are willing to seek out and do what is difficult and what challenges you: When you find yourself in a tough situation, and you quickly give self-pity the chance to manipulate you, you will not be able to seek out and do what is difficult and what challenges you. Self-pity is a distraction in itself. Instead of seeking out and do what is difficult and what challenges you, you will take the pleasure to avoid or shun or turn away from such difficulties.

One success principle says that, ‘try something new’. Self-pity discourages you from trying something new. Thus, making you to remain in your comfort zone. When you remain in your comfort zone, you would not be able to progress. When life puts you in a tough situation, stay strong or remain stable.

This helps you to be willing to seek out and do what is difficult and what challenges you. Instead of avoiding difficult or unpleasant thing, when you are stable, it prepares you and make you to get ready to face the unpleasant or difficult things. And you will learn to face them squarely.

11. It increases your self-confidence: When life puts you in a tough situation, one of these two things, will certainly happen, either you give in to self-pity or you stay strong or remain stable. If you are one of the soft people, you definitely give in to self-pity or you will keep crying why me. And if you are one of the tough, you will stay strong. The truth is that, if you give in to self-pity, you will lose your confidence or self-confidence. And this tend to weakens your powers of action or strength and thereby limiting you from taking necessary actions that you should do or steps that you are supposed to take.

Self-pity lower your confidence or self-confidence for sure. Because, it will blind you from seeing opportunity and doing the possibilities. On the other hand, your confidence or self-confidence receive, boost when you remain stable or stay strong. The more your confidence increases, the more your strength increases. Your confidence keep rising and rising until your confidence becomes your faith.

Faith is the complete confidence in a person or a plan or a course. There is difference between confidence and faith is that faith is a complete confidence. Confidence varies in degrees, and the highest degree is called faith. Faith is also described as unshakable confidence. When life puts you in tough situation, instead of being dominated by self-pity, stay strong to boost your confidence or self-confidence and make your dream come true.

When you think of the benefits you will stand to gain when you stay strong in time of tough situation, you will be encourage to always stay strong or remain stable anytime you found yourself in tough situation. The above will help you to always achieve that.