12 Different Ways to Celebrate or Lionize Yourself

 

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12 Different Ways to Celebrate or Lionize Yourself

Apart from wanting other people to celebrate you, you need to learn to celebrate yourself as well. How can I celebrate myself is what comes to mind.  You can celebrate yourself in several ways. To celebrate yourself is not just about pampering yourself. It is more than this. There is more to it. the term celebrate according to online English Dictionary, and Advance English Dictionary means to praise, extol, laud, applaud, magnify, glorify, bless, commend, give praise to, make famous. It also means to assign great social importance to something; it is to honour, to respect and to regard highly. Here are some different ways to celebrate yourself:

1.     1. Like yourself: The first thing here in celebrating yourself is to like your self. Do you like yourself? Most people think that to like yourself means to pamper yourself. No sir or ma, your liking your self involved doing the things you should be doing as well. Why because self-pampering alone can lead into poverty for real.

Like yourself is the combination of certain amount of pampering, not overpampering; and the doing of the things that you should be doing. By using a priority scale, the first is the doing of the things that you should be doing while the second is self-pampering.

If you omit the first, there is a problem but if you omit the second there is no problem because to sustain and maintain yourself-pampering, you need the first which has to do with doing the things that you should be doing. The combination of the first and the second or only the first is what is termed ‘like yourself’.

2.     2. Think good of yourself: Some people cannot think good of themselves that is why they think that they are not good or strong enough. They think they are not capable of finishing their race or fighting till the end. They believed that they are weak when they are actually strong. They look down on themselves.

When you cannot think good of yourself, you are indirectly harming yourself. Self harming is negative to your success. You cannot do better than what you are thinking about yourself. So learn to think good of yourself.

3.     3. Do only the best things: There are so many things laying in one’s front, some are negative, some are less important and while some others are positive or very important. The ability to pick only the best out of these things that counts o matters.

If you are not strong, some less important things may look like the best and some negative things will also look like the best. It is your choice to filter these things through discerning and thoughtfulness.

Those who are failing in discerning and thoughtfulness, often end up picking the negative and or the less important things and take them as the most important things. They end up chasing them as such.

4.     4. Belief in yourself /have faith in yourself: One sure way of celebrating yourself is to have faith in yourself. By having faith in yourself, it keeps your hope strong and alive. You will enjoy steadiness of mind. It uplift one’s spirit. It boost your morale. It energizes your strength and make you to stay focus on your dreams.

It prevents you from giving up on yourself and on your ability. Having faith in yourself pushes you to go the extra-mile to gain the treasure. To celebrate yourself, you must have faith in yourself. And that is how you celebrate yourself.   

5.     5. Staying strong no matter how life pnches you: Life punches are so many that if care is not taking by the individual, those punches tend to knock the individual down. When this happened despair show up.  It is your ability to withstand these punches that causes your celebration.  Despair steals your celebration.

Despair weakens and kills your joy in doing your work. To celebrate yourself, you must not allow your despair to get the better of you.

6.     6. Take a step and be incline or dispose to action: Lazy attitude spoils your show. Lazy people or soft people hardly win their wars. Those who succeed are those who take a step in solving their problems. When you are not inclined or disposed to action, you will be forgetting and ignoring your works or responsibilities.  

You will not like to inconvenience yourself to gain the throne. Indisposition to action limits your progress and growth. It is by taking steps in solving your problems and be inclined or disposed to your works that you celebrate yourself.

7.     7. Returning a thousand times if possible to the most disagreeable duty: When facing a duty like this, most people lose their value. They take pleasure in desisting from such duty. And create false impossibilities around such kind of duty. You celebrate yourself by going back again and again if beaten, to the most disagreeable duty to get it done. While other people are desisting, you are resisting and persisting until the work is completed.

Your celebration in desisting from dealing with the most disagreeable duty is short-lived but your celebration in resisting and persisting in tackling the most disagreeable duty last your whole life.  So the best way to celebrate yourself is not by desisting but by persisting.

8.     8. Learn to do your work well: Doing your work well is a contribution to make the society better. By doing your work well you are growing and flowing. You cannot celebrate yourself when you are not doing your work well or properly.

You can only celebrate yourself when you are doing your work well or properly because the gain is awesome. That is the whole truth. Doing your work well keeps your discipline and focus your mind on what you want to achieve.

9.     9. Let your actions be equal to your cherished desires: You have a particular cherished desire whose actions are well known to you but you are not interested in performing those actions that are attached or tied to that your cherished desire. Because those actions are not the ones that you like so the best thing you can do is to do the actions that you like that make you comfortable and happy but which are not equal to that your cherished desire.

You can do well to celebrate yourself by ensuring that your actions are equal to your cherished desire. People whose actions are equal to their dreams tend to achieve those cherished desires more than those whose actions are less or not equal to their cherished desires.

10. 10. Face the risks/pay the price: The risks are the problems you need to overcome. They are always there on your way to success. You can only overcome your problems when you face them. By facing the risks is to go through the problems on your way or path. It is to find solution to your problems.

You cannot celebrate when you are not facing the risks or doing the needful. By avoiding the risks, will not solve the problems or eliminate the risks. The risks will always be there. Until you remove the thorns from your bed before your bed can become a bed of roses.

Failure to face the risks multiply the risks. To celebrate yourself, face the risks.

11. 11. Finish your race/finish your work:  Finish your work is one success principle. The emphasis is laid on the word ‘finish’ or ‘complete’. The word finish or complete means to come or bring to a finish or an end. The work you are doing becomes a quality work when it is completed.

When your work is incomplete or unfinished, you would not get the praise. The person whose work is unfinished, knows that his or her work is not yet completed and cannot praise himself much for that.

No sincere person will take or give himself the praise or glory for not finishing his work. You deserve praise only when you complete your work. The farmers know this very well.Until your work becomes a quality work that is when people will celebrate you and for your work to be painted a quality work, it must be completed. You are satisfied with yourself when your work is properly done and executed.

Nobody is satisfied with himself as such when the work or duty is left undone or unfinished. Except for those who have disinclination for work or are indisposed to action. For this particular set of persons, their celebrations per say is short-live, if at all there is any. The more you fail to finish your work, the more your work or duty keep piling up. The joy of celebration lies in your ability to always finish or complete your works.

12. 12. Use your full strength in doing your work: Most times people fail to real achieve what they crave for as a result of not wanting to use their full or complete strength in doing their works. You want to achieve something but the same you do not want to bring into your work all your strength in doing the work. How will this feat be possible?

It will be very hard to achieve this feat. Unless and until you bring into your work all your strength without reservation of any part of your strength that is when the miracle you seek come round or shine.  People tend to keep some of their strength for self-pleasing or self-pampering and as such cannot properly do their work well.                                                                                                                                                                                      

Your celebration starts or begins with you. You cannot false other people to celebrate you.