If You Must Love the Life that You Live, Make Sure It Conforms and Agrees with These 20 Things Part 2

 

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If You Must Love the Life that You Live, Make Sure It Conforms and Agrees with These 20 Things Part 2

 

Recollect: People choose the lifestyles that they like, or love or that pleases them, and in the manner they like. In as much as, it is said, that people should live the life that they love or love the life that you live, their actions must conforms or agrees with certain rules of conducts or behaviors. One thing that is certain is that those who live their live anyhow, anyhow things normally happens to them. Most times people just develop interest in living a particular lifestyle without proper investigation or analyzes as it concerns the benefits, gains, pleasure, pains or burden, effects both negative and positive. Do not just live your life the way you want or the way you love. Live your life based on certain worthwhile principles and big ideals and not on low or week or soft principles and low ideals. If you must live the life that you love, make sure it agrees with these 20 things.

1.      11. You are chasing your dreams and not your illusions: In most cases, while living the life that you love, the tendency for people to be going after illusions is much higher than going after their dreams. Most people often take their illusions as their dreams why because, people have their problems of analyzing their illusions to see or find out more whether those illusions are not dreams that can be relied upon. Most people are people because they frequently go after self-deceptions. Illusion are things which are not true but some people are holding unto them as true. They accept those illusions as real or genuine things to chase. They often waste their greatest time befriending their illusions.

2.      12. Your actions must equal your dreams: It is your right to live the life that you love or want. But most times, people are living the life that they really do not like. Why is this so? Because, the life they choose to live at one time or the other or in the past was not the life they ought to have lived. In this case, the actions they were displaying does not equal to their dreams. Most often, people tend to do the actions that falls below the level of their dreams. These actions make it hard for them to actually live the life they love to live. If you must live the life that you love, ensure that your daily actions or activities are corresponding to your dreams or highest desires. But, if your actions are not always equal to your dreams, you would not be able to live the life that you really crave for.

3.      13. Your actions must be based on higher ideals: As each person is choosing the life he or she love to live, he or she must be mindful of the fact that their actions speak volume. The daily actions of people make or mar them. The life that some people love may be based on their deceptions but they are thinking it is good for them. To actually live the life that you love, your actions or activities must conform to the higher ideals. Higher ideals help people much more in achieving their purposeful goals better than low ideals. It uplift the individual and the society that practice those high or higher ideals. In short, low ideals do not help people to grow.

4.      14. Your actions are not debauchery incline:  Most of the time, debauchery lifestyle tend to influences people more because it is more interesting to people. It is suffering in disguise. People give in to negative pleasure and they see it or take it as the life that they love to live. They waste their money carelessly living the supposed life that they love. But the effects of these debauchery style of living is state in this way, ‘love pleasure ends but a moment but love sorrow ends one’s whole life’. So, it is very obvious that you be living the life that you love but yet, that life can cause you big or serious pains of regret, frustration, worry, stress and poverty.

5.      15. You are learning: Living the life that you love should not blindfold you from learning. But most often, the life that people are choosing to live is seriously blinding them from seeing and learning from what they are seeing. People are just living their life the way they love it but they are not learning meaningful thing from it. The life one choose to live should bless him or her with pleasant experiences and not bitter experiences. But the truth here is that people do not learn from pleasant experiences, unless and until the same life teach them a bitter lesson. If what you are learning from the life you are living is not healthy or pleasant, then change quickly from that life but if not, you may be preparing to experience a very bitter lessons.

6.      16. You are creating: When you are living the particular life that you love, it is very essential or necessary to be creating. You can be living the life that you love without creating anything out of it. If you are not creating then you are wasting it. Let’s take the popular story of the prodigal son for example, as the case study here. The prodigal son was enjoying his life by wasting his wealth instead of using his wealth to create additional source of wealth.

What was the result of the kind of life he loved to live? He ended up regretting the lifestyle he has choose to live before. You are either creating meaningful thing out of the life that you love to live or wasting it. The prodigal son wasted his own and that is why he became poorer than he was previously.

When you are leaving the life that you love be mindful of the effects it may have on your future. The prodigal son affected his future negatively. It is your choice to improve your life by creating or to mar it by wasting.    

7.      17. You are observing: Living the life that you love to live is okay. But it can be harmful as well. Be sure, that the lifestyle is helping you to observe what is going on around you. You are to observe the activities and actions of people to see whether those actions brings more pains than gains or more gains. This helps you to do filtering all the times. You able to select the actions that brings more gains. But if you are just living the life that you love without observing what is going on around you properly, you will be influence by all the actions that are of interest to you whether good or bad. Observing increases your chances of improving yourself while living the life that you love. So, keep observing.

8.      18. You are discerning: What is discerning? Discerning is having or revealing keen insight and good judgement. It is to be able to detect effects of great subtlety; sensitive. In living the life that you love, you must be active in discerning the choices before you, before making your decisions. If you do not engage in discerning, you will frequently not be able to choose correctly. Discerning helps you to critically think before you do the things you will love doing. If, you do not discern, the tendency to assume that the wrong things are the right things. You will not be able to differentiate between the good and the bad. It is discerning that helps you to know the actions or activities which fall under the good or the bad. You are discerning because you do not want to affect your life negatively.

9.      19. You are loving and caring: The life you live should conformed to loving and caring for yourself in the actual or bigger sense of the terms loving and caring. Loving and caring focus on the need for the individual to do the things he or she should be doing. If you are not doing the things you should be doing, then, you are not really or actually loving and caring. Loving and caring focus your mind on doing the things which matter more in your life. It is not about thinking and giving yourself pleasure. The emphasis here is on the actions that you should be doing to better your life. If your actions are quite different from what is expected of you, then you are not loving and or caring. You are doing yourself more harm than good.           

10.  20. You are playing little and not too much: The life that you love to live should move in line with playing little and not too much. If your lifestyle is more of playing too much, you may end up not being able to achieve much from the life that you are living. Playing little helps you to be more focus to achieve much from the life that you love to live. You cannot eat your cake and still have it.  Playing is very necessary or essential to personal growth and development. But it should not be too much. If too much, it may affects your dream negatively or you may not achieve your dreams.                                                                                                                                                               

For a quick reminder, if any person must live the life he or she love to live, he or she should ensure that the actions or activities are not conflicting with the above issues or factors. If there are conflicts, then, you are not free either.                                         

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