15 Ways to Face and Fight Your Deepest fear

 


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15 Ways to Face and Fight Your Deepest fear




You can fight your deepest fear if you will. To fight your deepest fear is to be willing to bring into your works or duties all your intelligence and strength. It is to be willing to do things which are difficult or unpleasant and to be willing to face the risk or pay the price. Our deepest fear is how to bring out the best in us. So, to fight your deepest fear is to be willing to bring out the best in you.

1.     Concentration and diligence: Concentration is a great and constant diligence and attention. It is showing or giving complete attention; intense mental effort. Diligence is a conscientiousness in paying proper attention to a task; giving the degree of care required in a given situation. It is the quality of being diligent; carefulness, careful attention; - the opposite of negligence.

It is interested and persevering application; devoted and painstaking effort to accomplish what is undertaken; assiduity in service. It is persevering determination to perform a task. It is a diligent effort. That is hard working.  Your diligence must be a great and constant one and not one time activity. Likewise, your attention to duty. This is the concern of concentration. Your concentration to a task or work or duty or to what is undertaken.

Concentration is not about giving proper attention to one particular activity and then improper or divided attention to other activities or tasks or duties. Concentration is about giving a great and constant proper attention to a task or any work or duty or what is undertaken by you. The diligence required here in facing and fighting your deepest fear is not just a onetime diligence but a great and constant one. With diligence, you can surmount every obstacle on your way. Only few things are actually impossible to diligence and skills. If your diligence is not a constant one, you may still have difficulties facing and fighting your deepest fear.

Anytime you are doing anything worth doing, it is expected or required of you to pay or give great and constant proper attention to it. Concentration to duty bring out the best of you into what you must do and should do and helps you to face and fight your deepest fear and make you to achieve your dream faster.

2.     Standing at the work which has been assigned to you: Legio Mariae asserted that, “There is a natural tendency in many people of great goodwill to do everything but what they are supposed to do, to wander all over the field instead of standing at the work which has been assigned to them”. The indication here is that, most people prefer to wander over the field instead of facing their deepest fear. 

When people face difficult task or work or duty or responsibility, they love to wander over the field or keep going around their problems or duties than to go through such duties or problems. In most cases, most people prefer to run away or dodge or escape from such duties or difficulties or problems. The word escape means, an inclination to retreat from unpleasant realities through diversion or fantasy. It is to fail to experience. It is nonperformance of something distasteful that you are supposed to do.

Mark Nepo stated that, “Joy is the transformation of our suffering, not the escape of all we have to face. Escape will prevent and hinder you from gaining your cherished desire or dream. To transform your suffering into joy or blessing, you will need to face all you have to face. When facing the important thing, whether they are distasteful or unpleasant or difficult or depressing works or duties, escape is not the best option.

The best option is to stand and fight those distasteful or unpleasant things that you are supposed to do. The more people try to escape distasteful duties or works, the more they find it hard to achieve their dreams. To face and fight your deepest fear, standby the work which has assigned to you.

3.     Do the actions that equal your cherished desires and your progress in faith: You cannot be able to face and fight your deepest fear, when you are busy doing the actions that are not equal your cherished desire and your progress in faith. When your actions are lesser than your dream, it will be very difficult to achieve such dream. To achieve your cherished desire or dream, your actions must be at the level of such your desire or dream. 

Your action must equal your dream and your progress in faith. The truth here is that, you cannot be able to face and fight your deepest fear when your actions or power of actions or strength is not align with your desire.

No matter how busy and hardworking you are, if the actions or works you are doing are not equal to your desire, it means that, you are not yet ready to face and fight your deepest fear. To face and fight your deepest fear, you must learn to do the works at the level of your dream or the works that matches or equals your desire and your progress in faith.

4.     Inconvenience yourself or trouble yourself / kill yourself: Inconvenience yourself means to take the trouble to do something; concern oneself. Kill oneself means strain oneself more than is healthy. The word strain means an effortful attempt to attain a goal. It is an intense or violent exertion. It is to exert much effort or energy. 

You cannot face and fight your deepest fear when you do not want to inconvenience or trouble yourself and or kill yourself. No one can sit and fold his or her hands to face and fight his or her deepest fear. If you want to successfully face and fight your deepest fear, you need to stand and face and fight by killing yourself or inconvenience yourself.

If you are not ready to inconvenience yourself, it means that, you are as well not yet ready to face and fight your deepest fear. So, if you must face and fight your deepest fear, you must have to make up your mind to pay the price or face the risk.

5.     Consecration and commitment: Consecration is the act of doing the things that you are supposed to be doing. Consecration is a solemn commitment of your life or time to some cherished purpose (to a service or a goal). It is dedication or devotion to duty. Commitment is the trait of sincere and steadfast fixity of purpose. It is the act of binding yourself (intellectually and emotionally) to a course of action. When you have a cherished purpose to pursue and catch, you need consecration to be able to do just that. 

A study of the meaning of consecration reveals that consecration of time or life is to some cherished purpose or desire. Here, the emphasis is on cherished purpose and not to other desires such as the less important things or your corrupt desires or passions. Cherished purpose is quite different from our other desires.  But most people make the mistake of applying their consecration, to other of their desires and have no time for their cherished purpose. When your consecration of life and time to your duties or works or responsibilities, is low and thin and poor, it weakens your strength.

This is why many people cannot face and fight their deepest fear and their lives keep getting worse and worse day by day. But the truth is that, consecration to some cherished purpose is very powerful. It strengthens your strength. You improve your life more and steady and gain the object in view or your cherished purposes or cherished desires; when your consecration is to some cherished purpose or the object in view and not to some desires of corrupt passions or of less important things.

When your consecration of life or time to your cherished purposes is high and strong enough, it will make your power of actions equal your dreams. The more you go after your corrupt passions and less important things, the farther you will be from your cherished purpose or dream or the main object in view. To face and fight your deepest fear and gain your dreams, you need consecration and commitment. It strengthens your strength. And helps you to achieve your dreams faster.

6.     Do what you are supposed to do and what you must do: Doing what you are supposed to do and must do is quite different from doing what you love. You may be doing what you love but what you love may not be what you are supposed to be doing and must do. The reason why moat people cannot face and fight their deepest fear is that, they love doing what they love. You cannot face and fight your deepest fear when you love doing only what you love. 

Doing what you love may be a sign of escape or evasion or dodging or running away or avoiding what you are supposed to do and should do and must do. What you must do may not be what you actually love but because, they are necessary evil, you cannot avoid them. What most people love doing in most cases, are what pleases them. But what you must do and supposed to do and should do, very often are difficult or distasteful or unpleasant or depressing or disagreeable, but you just have to do them all the same.

Whether, you love them or not. To face and fight your deepest fear, you must do what you supposed to do and what you must do and should do. It is more than just doing what you love. It is doing what is necessary and needful.

7.     Reject your false impossibilities: False impossibilities are self-made impossibilities or man-made impossibilities. They are not natural impossibilities. In the world only few things are really or actually impossible to man. These real impossibilities can only be solve by God. But the false or self-made impossibilities are not real impossibilities. They are created out of poor imagination of people. 

When these false impossibilities are created by faulty or poor imagination, they become additional challenges for the individual who imagine such impossibilities. When the individual accept such impossibilities, by his or her attitude, such impossibilities become real impossibilities to that person. On daily basis, people keep increasing the number of impossibilities in their lives.

The acceptance of false impossibilities or self-made impossibilities often weakens one’s strength. When you succeed in creating self-made or false impossibilities around your works or duties and then you accept such impossibilities by your attitude, these fake impossibilities begin to discourage and distracting you from what you are supposed to do and must do. But when you reject your self-made impossibilities or false impossibilities, it gives more power to your strength.

The rejection of false impossibilities makes you to be more focus on what you are supposed and must do. This rejection helps to strengthen your strength and make you able to go through your problems, and overcome the difficulties on your path to the treasure. When you face difficulties, do not run away from them. Stay and fight them. Face all you have to face.

You are able to attain this feet because of your rejection of false impossibilities. To face and fight your deepest fear, always reject all your false or fake or self-made impossibilities. Only few things are actually impossible to diligence and skills. God takes control of such impossibilities.  

8.     Resist your resistances: The word resistances are flimsy excuses popping up in your mind of your inadequacies or limitations you have that can prevent you from doing what you can do. Most people have one excuse or the other that is dragging them backward or pulling them down from going forward. Resistances are excuses which pop up each and every time you about taking serious decision about doing something to achieve your dream. 

These excuses keep coming to make you to change your mind concerning what you want to achieve. Some of the resistances are; are you sure you can do this, Is this thing not going to take long time to do, do you have the strength to carry this your plan, is not better you leave it and try another, do you want to waste your time, why not leave it and do it later or tomorrow and so the resistance goes. Your resistances are also part of what you must try to overcome.

When you cannot overcome your resistances, or when your flimsy excuses start dominating you, your strength or your power of actions begins to get lower and lower or get weakens day by day and the tendency to give up on your dream is very sure or certain. When you are able to reject or resist your flimsy excuse or resistances, it makes your strength to get strengthen.

The more you are able to reject your excuses or resistances, the more your strength get strengthen and the more you are interested in doing what you are supposed to do. Until, you are able to resist your resistances, you will not be able to face and fight your deepest fear. To be able to face and fight your deepest fear, learn to always reject or resist your resistances.

9.     Work hard: Work hard is a call to success. When your heart is calling you to work hard, the heart is inviting you to experience success. Success is tied to working hard. That is why, it is often said that, ‘If you work hard, you will become a leader but if you are lazy, you would not succeed’. Work hard is an inclination to work or a disposition to action. When you are lazy, it shows that, you are not yet ready or prepared to face and fight your deepest fear. 

You can be more to yourself by working hard and harder. It is your choice to choose to be powerful or pitiful. Your deepest fear is that you are powerful. When you are not yet ready to face and fight your deepest fear, your dream would never come true. To face and fight and overcome your deepest fear, you need to take the pleasure to work hard and harder.

By so doing, you are on your way to the top and become a leader. The only people who stand and face and fight their deepest fear are those who derive pleasure working hard at what they want to achieve. Being lazy is not the call of your heart, it is the call to please your flesh. The call of your heart is to work hard and become a leader.

10.  Fight till the end: When you face and fight your deepest fear, you must fight till the end. If you cannot fight till the end, then, you have given your deepest fear the chance to overcome and dominate you. If you cannot face and fight your deepest fear, your deepest fear will dominate and rule your life. 

The truth is that, if you fight and run away, you will still fight another day. The more you keep fighting and running away, the more you will come back and fight another day and another day and another day. Why not stand and face and fight once and for all till the end your deepest fear. To face and fight your deepest fear, fight your battle till the end. 

11.  Return a thousand times to the most disagreeable duty or most displeasing duty: Legio Mariae asserted that, “Prepared, if bidden, to return a thousand times to the most depressing duty or most disagreeable duty”. This call is a very tough challenge. For most people, they simply cannot do this. Because, it is not part of what most people love. In the face of one or ten thousand defeat keep going and moving and flowing and growing.

Refuse to be stagnant, do not give up or quit. If you fail to return, you are choosing to stop flowing and growing. Return a thousand times if bidden, to the most depressing duty or most disagreeable duty is what you must do and should do. You see, this is quite different from what you love to do. What most people will love to do here, is to avoid or ignore or forget such, depressing duty.

Avoiding a depressing duty will not solve the problem. To solve your problem, ponder on what legio Mariae asserted above. To face and fight your deepest fear, return a thousand times to the most depressing duty and get it done.

12.  Strong positive confessions: Weak or poor confession is a communication that makes you afraid, to try something. It is an intimidation that tend to limit you from trying something. The negative confession of people is intimidating them from doing what they are supposed to do. On daily basis, people confess negatively than positively. When your confession is a negative and weak and poor one, it will affect your actions negatively and thus, weakens your strength.

Nobody can go or do above his or her confessions. The more people engage in negative and weak and poor confession, the more they avoid their works. And the more they complain. Negative and weak and poor confession is making, people to perform below their capabilities and abilities. It makes people not to have interest in doing certain things or somethings. 

The negative and weak and poor confessions of people make them to become lazy in taking actions to solve their problems. Negative and weak and poor confessions are source of distraction. They distract you or people from what they are supposed to do and should do and must do. And make them to pick interest in doing what they are not supposed to do and must not do. Your positive and strong and powerful confessions keeps you focus and strong. And help you to increase your power of actions or strength.

Negative and weak and poor confessions of people is intimidating them and thus, weakening their strength on daily basis. But your positive and strong and powerful confessions, are needed for your growth. Positive and strong and powerful confessions increases your power of actions or strengthens your strength. 

Strong positive confession is the way to go in gaining or achieving your cherished desires or purposes. Anything that you set your mind to achieve, positive and strong and powerful confessions becomes the drive which propel you into taking actions needed to achieve that which you have set your mind to achieve. Your deepest fear is that you are unstoppable.

Nothing can stop you but you. You cannot fight your deepest fear when you confession is faulty and negative and weak and poor. You will not be able and capable and fit to fight your deepest fear when you have given into intimidation coming from you or out of you through your poor confession. When you have confess negatively and poor about it (your duty or work or task or responsibility), you will not do it, because you are intimidated by it. To be able to face and fight your deepest fear, you need strong and positive daily confession because, success is the sum of daily outcome from daily effort.  

13.  Persistent endeavor: The word persistent means never-ceasing. It is stubbornly unyielding. While the word endeavor means, a purposeful or industrious undertaking (especially one that requires effort or boldness). It is an earnest and conscientious activity intended to do or accomplish something. It is an attempt by employing effort. When you want to achieve something or a desire, your persistent endeavor is critical in helping you to gain that thing or desire. 

Persistent endeavor make you to be consistent and constant in doing the things intended or required to accomplish a goal or a purpose or a desire or a dream. It is only when you are persistent in doing the things you are supposed to do and should do and must do that you can gain success. The more persistent you are in your endeavor, the more you gain your intended purposes. Your persistent effort makes you stay strong and thus, make your mind stable.

By so doing you are able to face and fight your deepest fear. Your deepest fear is that you are powerful and strong than you think. But when there is lack of persistent endeavor or effort, it become too difficult to gain your intended purpose. This lack of persistent endeavor weakens your strength and makes your mind unstable and as such you become unable or unfit to fight your deepest fear. To overcome your deepest fear, do not run away. Stay and face and fight it. Be patient, but be persistent. You can do and achieve this by your persistent endeavor.

14.  Do what is difficult and challenges you and scares you: Do the things that scares you. Most of the things which scare people are distasteful or unpleasant or very difficult or depressing or disagreeable. Nobody is afraid of the easy or simple things or works or duties. Most people do not like difficult things because they do not like to work that hard or much. 

Instead of doing what is difficult, most people try to avoid as much as possible the things which are difficult and scares them. Your deepest fear is that thing which you can do and you are capable of doing it but you do not want to do it. Femando Flores maintained that, “Great work is done by people who are not afraid to be great” while, Mark Nepo asserted that, “Joy is the transformation of our suffering, not the escape of all we have to face”. 

To face and fight your deepest fear, you do not need to avoid difficult things or do only the easy or simple things. What you need is to do what is difficult and challenges you and scares you. Sooner or later, those who want to succeed must attack the most difficult things or works. To succeed in facing and fighting your deepest fear, you must be in the front of your battle.

15.  Think like a champion or a hero and be heroic: You are what you think you are and you are all that you choose to be. Earl Nightingale maintained that, “We become what we think about the most of the time, and that’s the strangest secret”.  People get what they think. People always get what they think and believe. The journey of facing and fighting your deepest fear begins from your thinking. That is why, it is often said that, ‘Thought is supreme’. 

If you cannot face your deepest fear in your mind, you will not be able to face it in reality. That is why it is often said that, ’Mentality affects reality’. What you think and believe about yourself come through. You are as successful as you think and believe yourself to be. What you think about and believe now, makes your success or failure. You can do all, and face all you have to face because you think you can. But if your thinking is negative, you will do otherwise.

If you must stand and face and fight your deepest fear, be heroic and think like a champion or a hero. Champions or heroes are those who choose to shine like a star. You can choose to be powerful or choose to be weak, it is still your choice. But if you must succeed facing and fighting your deepest fear, you must think like a champion or a hero and be heroic.

Each and every time, you are facing your deepest fear and you do not know what to do to over it, the above factors will help you to know what to do.                 

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