Top 27 Ways to Gain the Object in View: Part 3

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Top 27 Ways to Gain the Object in View: Part 3

Recollect: There are many ways to gain the object of attention. The object in view is your goal or purpose. How do you gain or achieve it? The answer to this question varies. People use various ways to achieve the object in view. These ways are the means. To justify the object in view, it is the ways that justify the object in view. And not the object that justify the ways. To gain the object in view, here are some ways to follow:

19.  Consecration: Consecration is the act of doing the things that you are supposed to be doing. Consecration is a solemn commitment of your life or time to some cherished purpose (to a service or a goal). It is dedication or devotion to duty. Commitment is the trait of sincere and steadfast fixity of purpose. It is the act of binding yourself (intellectually and emotionally) to a course of action. When you have a cherished purpose to pursue and catch, you need consecration to be able to do just that. 

A study of the meaning of consecration reveals that consecration of time or life is to some cherished purpose or desire. Here, the emphasis is on cherished purpose and not to other desires such as the less important things or your corrupt desires or passions. Cherished purpose is quite different from our other desires.  But most people make the mistake of applying their consecration to other of their desires and have no time for their cherished purpose.

This why many people lives keep getting worse and worse day by day. But the truth is that consecration to some cherished purpose is very powerful. It makes your life just to keep getting better and better. You improve your life more and steady and gain the object in view when your consecration is to some cherished purpose or the object in view and not to some desires of corrupt passions or of less important things. Most often, people turn their corrupt passions or desires or the less important into the object in view and chase after those things as such.

The more you go after you corrupt passions or less important things, the farther you will be from your cherished purpose or dream or the main object in view. And the more you will make your life just to keep getting worse and worse. To gain the object in view you need consecration.

20. Focus on the goals and not on the obstacles: Focus on the goal is very critical and essential. It goes a long way in helping or making you to be able to actually gain the object in view. People tend to achieve more what they focus their mind more on. Instead of focusing on the goal, most people, love focusing on the obstacles. 

 And the more they keep focusing on the obstacles, the more distracted you are and the less or never will they gain the object in view. When you focus more attention on the obstacles, you will lose your focus of or on the goal which is to gain the object in view.

But the more you focus your attention on the goal, it keeps your mind stable on what to do and what not to do to gain the object in view. By so doing, you are able to gain more the goal. 

21.  Work hard:  A success anthem says, ‘work hard and become a leader; be lazy and you will not succeed.’ How do you or can you gain the object in view? One sure way is the way of ‘work hard.’ It simply, means that if you are lazy, you will always find it too hard to gain the object in view. 

Even the small desires of people, can be difficult to gain with lazy attitude and behavior. Talk more, of the bigger object in view. Being lazy may only bring immediate or instant comfort and brief happiness but on the long-run, laziness brings lasting sorrow. Which do you prefer, the instant comfort or lasting happiness and peace of mind? The choice is yours to make.

To actually or really gain the object in view, it is better to follow the way of hard work or working hard. It by so doing that you can be rest assure that your cherished object in view is actually yours. And if you fail to follow the way of hard work, the object in view only belong to those who go for it.

22.  Self-confidence/self-trust: Self-confidence is freedom from doubt; belief in yourself and your abilities.  Self-distrust or self-doubt is lack of self-confidence. It is synonymous with hesitance, hesitancy, unassertiveness, timidity, timidness, timorousness. Doubt is the state of being unsure of something. When you are doubting yourself, you will lose your confidence. When you lose your confidence, you will not be able to do what you can really do.

Doubt or self-doubt weakens your strength both physical and mentally or intellectually. You will end up not being able to resist your resistances or flimsy excuses. When you begin to doubt yourself, you will start to dislike certain things. You will start avoiding certain works. Self-doubt can make you to alter or change your perception about something even when that thing is actually the real or correct or right thing.

It makes you to see your problems as unwanted evils instead of seeing your problems as necessary evils. You no longer see the problems or difficulties or challenges or duties or responsibilities as necessities that is, things you must do but as things you should avoid. You become incapable of going through your problems rather you take pleasure getting around those problems or duties or responsibilities. Doubting yourself limits you from doing the needful.

Things that you are capable of doing in the first instance, you no longer can do or stand them. It makes you to give in to negative thinking, develop poor attitude, have poor mindset or mentality, and develop faulty imagination, which often give rise to false impossibilities. Self-doubt or self-distrust often, make people to indulge in self-pampering or self-gratification.

The more you are doubting yourself and your abilities, the more you will be doubting your dreams. And the more, you doubt your dreams, the more you detest certain works. Your self-confidence helps you to see your problems or challenges as possibilities because, you have confidence in yourself. Yourself confidence brings out the strengths in you and make you ready to face all you have to face to be able to gain the object in view.  

It is always your choice to either be doubting yourself or to be having confidence in yourself. But the truth is that, you cannot easily gain the object in view or you will never gain the object in view, when you do not have confidence in yourself. Your confidence speak louder in your actions than in your words. 

23. Focus on the possibilities and not on the impossibilities: When it comes to doing something hard, most people do not like to work that hard. And this success anthem says, ‘Do something hard every day.’ In the face of meeting a difficult or very difficult works or tasks, most people often tend to focus more on the impossibilities rather than on the possibilities. The more people love focusing on the impossibilities, the more they will avoid or escape the works or tasks or all they have to face to be able to gain the object in view. 

When you focus on the impossibilities instead of focusing on the possibilities, you will become intimidated and then allow fear to start dominating you. By so doing, you will lose your strength, both physically and otherwise. To gain the object in view, people must learn to focus their mind more on the possibilities of gaining the object in view.

The escape is the major problem of most people when they encounter difficulties. The truth is that, on the way to gain the object in view, the way is always full of difficulties. It then become a choice for you, to either focus more on the possibilities or on the impossibilities. One helps; the other harms.  

24.  Consistency of conduct: Consistency is a harmonious uniformity or agreement among things or parts. It is an agreement or harmony of all parts of a complex thing among themselves, or of the same thing with itself at different times; the harmony of conduct with profession; congruity; correspondence; as, the consistency of laws, regulations; or judicial decisions; consistency of opinions; consistency of conduct or of character. 

Consistency of conduct refer to the behavior that is expected of you to show while doing or performing your duties or responsibilities. If you must achieve your dream, your expected conduct must be constant or consistent with the object in view. The behavior that is required of you to display while going after your cherished purpose must not be compromise at all. Your actions must not conflict with your dream. Consistency of conduct involves doing the things one is expected or required to do and be doing it in order to hit the intended target or make the object in view come true.

One thing that is making people not to gain the object in view is that, most people required or expected conducts are not consistent or constant. There are series of variations in their expected conduct. When you are desisting instead of persisting, you are creating variation in your conduct. When there is no steady following in terms of expected actions, variation has occur. There must be correspondence or agreement between the object in view and the required or expected conduct. If there is no agreement between your conduct and the object in view, it is certain, you will not gain the object in view.

Consistency of conduct is the steadiness in the required behavior that is mandatory to exhibits or showcase each time you are doing what you should be doing to make it easy for you to gain the object in view. You will keep getting better and better, if your actions or conduct is always consistent with your purpose or goal. For you to keep getting better and better in gaining the object in view, your expected conduct must agree with the object in view.  Consistency of conduct is the key to achieving your goals.

25.  Concentration: Concentration is a great and constant diligence and attention. It is showing or giving complete attention; intense mental effort. Diligence is a conscientiousness in paying proper attention to a task; giving the degree of care required in a given situation. It is the quality of being diligent; carefulness, careful attention; - the opposite of negligence. 

It is interested and persevering application; devoted and painstaking effort to accomplish what is undertaken; assiduity in service. It is persevering determination to perform a task. It is a diligent effort. That is hard working.  Your diligence must be a great and constant one and not one time activity. Likewise, your attention to duty. This is the concern of concentration. Your concentration to a task or work or duty or to what is undertaken.

Concentration is not about giving proper attention to one activity and then improper or divided attention to another activity or task or duty. Concentration is about giving a great and constant proper attention to a task or any work or duty or what is undertaken by you.

Anytime you are doing anything worth doing, it is expected or required of you to pay or give great and constant proper attention to it. Concentration to duty helps you to achieve the object in view or your dream faster and make your life just to keep getting better and better.

26.  Positive confession: Negative confession is a communication that makes you afraid to try something. It is an intimidation that tend to limit you from trying something. The negative confession of people is intimidating them from doing what they are supposed to do. On daily basis, people confess negatively than positively. When your confession is a negative one, it will affect your actions as such. 

Nobody can go or do above his or her confessions. The more people engage in negative confession, the more they avoid their works. And the more they complain. Negative confession is making, people to perform below their capabilities. It makes people not to have interest in doing certain things or somethings.

The negative confessions of people make them to become lazy in taking actions to solve their problems. Negative confessions are source of distraction. They distract you or people from what they are supposed to do and should do. And make them to pick interest in doing what they are not supposed to do. Your positive confessions keeps you focus and strong.

Negative confession of people is intimidating them and making them not to know that problems or difficulties are prices to greatness. Instead problems are painted as disgusting things which must be avoided and which are not needed for your growth. Positive confession is the way to go in gaining the object in view. Anything that you set your mind to achieve, positive confession becomes the drive which propel you into taking actions needed to achieve that which you have set your mind to achieve.

27.  Habit of accepting and performing one’s responsibilities: When people form the habit of ignoring and, or forgetting their responsibilities, either because the responsibilities are distasteful or difficult or unpleasant or depressing or not what they love or they do not feel comfortable doing such activities and the likes. This habit draw or pull people back. You cannot get to the top with this kind of habit. Certain habits are dreams killer.

This negative habit affect people’s mindset or mentality negatively. It encourages self-pleasing and self-pampering. The more people take pleasure in ignoring and forgetting their responsibilities, the more they would find it too hard to know that problems or difficulties are prices to greatness. The habit of accepting and performing one’s responsibilities is what transforming suffer into joy.

This habit makes you to confront or face all that you have to face without fear or intimidation. It helps you to say no to self-pampering or self-gratification. To gain the object in view, people learn to accept and perform their responsibilities and not to dodging or escaping their responsibilities.

If you must gain the object in view all the above discuss factors are very critical to gain you the cherished object of attention or object in view. Take your time to study them carefully. It is a great thing to do. And you will be glad you did.