People Who Do Not Know That Difficulties Are Prices to Greatness are Often Ruled by These 26 Things: 2

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People Who Do Not Know That Difficulties Are Prices to Greatness are Often Ruled by These 26 Things: 2


Recollect: The truth is that most of the times, most of us do not know that our daily problems or difficulties are prices to greatness. Price is value measured by what must be given or done or undergone to obtain something. In another word, prices are things we must give out or do to obtain something or our desires or that which we cherished most. This means that, we must face our problems daily as they arise. But the funny thing here is that most people are not always ready to face their problems or difficulties. The problems or difficulties here are better known as duties or responsibilities which must be carryout or perform to the latter no matter how difficult they may be. Another fact here is that, most people do not see their problems or difficulties or challenges as duties or responsibilities. Why is it difficult or hard for most people to know that their problems or challenges are duties to be perform and are prices to their greatness? Here, are some top reasons why most people do not know that their problems or difficulties are prices to greatness:

10.  Wavering and indecision/people minds are everywhere: Wavering is indecision in speech or action. It is uncertain in purpose or action. While indecision is doubt concerning two or more actions. It is the trait of irresolution; it is a lack of firmness of character or purpose. The word uncertain means lacking or indicating lack of confidence or assurance. It is not established beyond doubt; still undecided or unknown.

When there is wavering and indecision roving within one’s mind, or when the person mind is everywhere, he or she will not be able to make conclusion on what he or she wants to do. The person become unsure of what he or she really wants out of life. When there is indecision in your speech or actions, you will lack the power to take a step in doing certain things. 

It contributes to inconsistency in character or inconstancy of conduct. People have dreams to chase and to catch but wavering and indecisions is limiting them in chasing and catching such dreams. Most often, people do not know that problems or difficulties are prices to their greatness because wavering and indecisions.  

11.  Pampering/gratification: Pampering is the act of indulging or gratifying a desire. It is gratifying tastes, appetites, or desires. Going by the meaning of pampering here, you can see that, pampering entails pleasing yourself or oneself too unnecessary.

When you are busy trying to gratify a wrong desire or a less important desire, you will tend not to pay attention to the main thing or the important thing. Most times, people make the mistake of making the less important thing or the wrong thing or the unnecessary thing to be the major or main thing or the important thing. And as such, they wrongly go after or chase those things they considered most. 

When you are pampering yourself or giving in to gratification, you will see problems or difficulties as unwanted evils. Pampering or over-pampering tends to weakens one’s strength both physically and mentally. It also make people to be lazy in doing certain things or works. Pampering is one of the reasons why most people do not know that problems or difficulties are prices to their greatness.

12.  Lack of reflection and thoughtfulness: Reflection or thoughtfulness is a calm, lengthy, intent consideration. Thoughtfulness is also the trait of thinking carefully before acting. Why indulging in thinking carefully and deeply before acting or taking action or step? It is because to avoid unwanted and unnecessary mistakes.

The lack of reflection and thoughtfulness is making most people to act rashly, thereby preventing them from seeing the hidden treasure in their pains or problems or difficulties. Acting without reflection and thoughtfulness, makes people to take quick wrong decisions and make irrational choices. 

Most people do not that there is a hidden joy buried in their problems or pains because of the lack of reflection and thoughtfulness. The reason why most people do not know that problems or difficulties or challenges are prices to their greatness, is because of lack of reflection and thoughtfulness.    

13.  Assumption: Assumption is the act of assuming or taking for granted. It is the act of taking for granted, or supposing a thing without proof; supposition assumed; unwarrantable claim. Supposition is the act of supposing, laying down, imagining, or considering as true or existing, what is known not to be true, or what is not proved. Assumption means doubt and uncertainty. People assumptions can affect their decisions negatively.

When you assume something that is bad or negative or that is incorrect to good or positive or correct, you will end up doing the wrong things. Most times, the one reason why most people are busy chasing the wrong thing or the less important things is because of their assumptions. 

The more important things are assume to be the less important while the less important things are assume to be the important or more important things. Based on their assumptions people do what they do. The problem of considering what is not true to be truth and what is truth not to be true is making most people not to know that problems are prices to greatness.  

14.  Societal influence: The societal influence on the people is also a factor to be considered. The society influences her members negatively, because problems are often perceive to be problems but not as challenges. When a problem is considered or perceived as a problem it means there is nothing you can do about it. But when a problem is perceived as a challenge, it means you can find a way of solving, or surmounting it. 

When the society perceive problems more as obstacles than as challenges, what do you expect? Most people will do the same. The societal influence is influencing most people negatively to see their problems as problems or obstacles than as challenges. This is why most people do not know that problems or difficulties are prices to greatness.    

15.  Negative confession: Negative confession is a communication that makes you afraid to try something. It is an intimidation that tend to limit you from trying something. The negative confession of people is intimidating them from doing what they are supposed to do. On daily basis, people confess negatively than positively. When your confession is a negative one, it will affect your actions.

Nobody can go or do above his or her confessions. The more people engage in negative confession, the more they avoid their works. And the more they complain. Negative confession is making, people to perform below their capabilities. It makes people not to have interest in doing certain things or somethings.

The confessions of people make them to become lazy in taking actions to solve their problems. Negative confessions are source of distraction. They distract you or people from what they are supposed to do and should do. And make them to pick interest in doing what they are not supposed to do.

Negative confession of people is intimidating them and making them not to know that problems or difficulties are prices to greatness. Instead problems are painted as disgusting things which must be avoided and which are not needed for your growth.

16.  Habit of ignoring and forgetting one’s responsibilities: When people form the habit of ignoring and forgetting their responsibilities, either because the responsibilities are distasteful or difficult or unpleasant or depressing or not what they love or they do not feel comfortable doing such activities and the likes. This habit draw or pull people back. You cannot get to the top with this kind of habit. Certain habits are dreams killer. 

This negative habit affect people’s mindset or mentality negatively. It encourages self-pleasing and self-pampering. The more people take pleasure in ignoring and forgetting their responsibilities, the more they would find it too hard to know that problems or difficulties are prices to greatness.

17.  Pretense: The term pretense means the act of giving a false appearance. It is a false or unsupportable quality.  Pretense is the act of pretending not to know or be aware of what you already know or what you are already aware of. Most people give in to pretense because of not wanting to take responsibility. When people want to run away from their responsibilities or when they want to avoid responsibilities or ignore their duties or works, they show pretense of not knowing the situation on ground.

The habit of ignoring or forgetting one’s responsibilities is also influenced by pretense. Pretense make most people not to pick the interest of doing what they are supposed to do, and should do and must do. Most people are aware that, some of their works are difficult but they pretend not to know that such works exist. That is why, they forget about such works or duties. 

Pretense also make people to indulge in self pampering and not wanting to take responsibilities or to perform certain actions. Why do most people want to place their pleasure first before their duties? It is because of pretense. They pretend not to know or care about their duties. Pretense makes people to think more about pleasure than their duties or responsibilities or works. One reason most people do not know that problems are prices to greatness is pretense.  

18.  Lack of discretion and discernment: This is the trait of judging wisely and objectively. Going by the meaning of discretion and discernment, when there is discretion and discernment, people will be able to judge wisely and objectively before making key decisions or taking certain steps. This helps in making the right choices. People will be able to know what to do and what not to do.

Discretion and discernment help people to avoid unnecessary mistakes and focus their mind on the main thing. This make people to do what they are supposed to do and must do. But when there is lack or absence of discretion and discernment before making key decisions or taking certain steps, people will be making lots of mistakes in their actions.

A lack or absence of discretion and discernment is another source of distraction. People get distracted from what they should do into doing what they are not supposed to do. By so doing, they often lose their focus. The lack or absence of discretion and discernment is also making most people not to know that problems or difficulties are prices to greatness.

happy reading. 

 

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