22 Different Ways People Disappoint or Betray Themselves Daily: part 2

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22 Different Ways People Disappoint or Betray Themselves Daily: part 2

Recollect: On daily basis people do things they think is the best for them. They act based on certain conviction, they have made their mind on. There are many things that people love doing and they spend their time on those things. Everyone choose who and what he or she wants to be. The question here is that, who and what that people want to be are they right? The daily actions of people speak volume in their lives. The effects of the daily actions of people speak louder about who and what they want to be. Seldom, do most people know that their actions are not what should be. People choose to live their lives the way they want but unfortunately, they are wrong in their choices. Most often, our attention is quickly drawn to the disappointment caused by other people but seldom, do we know that we are frequently disappointing ourselves as well. We often tend not mind, but the disappointment that is caused by ourselves hurt the most. This article or write up seek to know the different ways people disappoint or betray or let down or frustrate themselves by their actions. The word disappoint means to fail to meet the hopes or expectations of. People have their hopes and expectations they could not meet up with because of the wrong actions they indulged in. Most people tend to disappoint themselves more than what other people do to them. Below are ways most people disappoint themselves on daily basis or occasions:

1.     They procrastinate a lot/they do the right things at the wrong time: The right time is now. Very often, many of us love procrastinating on what we should do and be doing. We love to delay ourselves by frequently procrastinating in tackling the problems we have. Instead of going through our problems, we love going around our problems.

Many people procrastinate in doing the things they should be doing either because of laziness or not wanting to inconvenience themselves or the task or work is difficult or distasteful. Procrastination is making people to ignore or forget their works.

It is the reason why in most cases, some people choose to do the right things at the wrong times. Young people need to work hard while it is day or while the sun is still shinning in order to have their rest later. The more people procrastinate, the more they leave their work undone.

2.       They do not persist for long: People give up too quickly by not finishing the race. Persisting is key if you must aimed at excellence. If you cannot persist for long, it will be too difficult for you to gain excellence. To achieve the best, you cannot do without persisting. Most times, most people give up on their dreams too quickly because they cannot bear certain pains.

Many people do not want to trouble themselves to gain what they want. So, they quit fighting their battle. If you cannot persist why crying? Why complaining when you cannot persist?

Because of the influences of flying or brief pleasure or here today and gone tomorrow pleasure, many people find it hard or too hard to persist in doing or performing certain works or duties or responsibilities. As a result of this, they cannot achieve their most cherished intentions.     

3.     They engage in false competitions: Most times and very often, some people take pleasure in indulging in false competitions with others who are even not aware of such competitions. You are competing doing what other people are doing because it is the latest thing on ground or because of poor thought, they are not better than me mentality.

You can be in the same status or even earning the same amount of salary or be in the same age category is not enough to indulge in false competitions. Most times, the competition is centered more on flitting or fleeting pleasure or and not on killing oneself to gain one’s top desires. False competition is drawing many people backward from really achieving their heart topmost desires or intentions.   

4.     They love to pretend to be someone else they are not: Many people love to pretend to be someone else they are not. They take pleasure faking their lifestyle. They have problem showing their actual self. They prefer to display their ideal self than to live their actual life. Why do some people love to pretend to be who they are not?

To please their flesh and mind and other people around them. Pretense promote carelessness in spending. Pretense pulls people down. When you are pretending to be who you are not, the tendency to spend more than you expect is certain. People try to meet up with their fake life by spending as such.

Pretense put people into more problems than expected because you are selling a false image of yourself and you want other people to believe it so. The more some people pretend to be who they are not, the poorer they tend to become.

5.       They do every other things but what they are supposed to do: There are many things people are doing which are not what they should be doing. While the thing they should do, they are not doing it. The things they are doing makes them comfortable that is why they are doing those things while the things they should do are making them uncomfortable that is why they do not attend to those things.

When you are not doing what you are supposed to do, you will not achieve what you are supposed to achieve. Every other things are serious distractions. When you are doing every other things, you will lose focus of the main things or what you are supposed to do. People betray themselves daily doing every other things instead of doing what they are supposed to do.  

6.     Their works does not equal their dreams: Everyone has at least a dream to catch. But not every knows how to catch their dreams. Our dreams are in different levels. Each level has an attached corresponding actions or activities or works that you must do to gain your dream. The problem with so many people is that they love to do the works that are below their dreams.

If what you are aiming is in the level three but you are busy doing the actions of the dreams in level one, what will you gain? You will sure gain the dreams in level one. It will be impossible to make your level three dreams come through when your power of actions is not equal to your dreams.

Your dreams will remain only dreams and you will not be able to actualize them. If you much achieve your dreams or highest purpose, your actions must be equal to such dreams.   

7.    They do not do their works well or properly or rightly: Even when some people are doing the right thing, they end up doing it unwell. Let cite the students as example here. Many students see note copying as suffering that is why they end up not copying the note well. 

Their teachers will be forcing them to finish their notes copying but yet, some will still not do that action well. Incomplete note is incomplete work. Many students do not get to do well because of the problem of incomplete notes or because they do not do their works well. So also, many people do not get to do their works or what they are supposed to do well even when they are doing the right works or things.

They end up not doing the right works rightly. People betray themselves more, when they fail to do the right things rightly.

8.       They turn from toil and hardship: Most people do not want to work that hard. They only love to feel the gains or the benefits but not the pains. They love their pleasure more than their duties. When people think more about their pleasure than their duties, the tendency to turn from toil and hardship is very high.

The more you turn from toil and hardship, the poorer you become. Who will put food on your table when you are busy turning from toil and hardship? People struggle to put food on their table or succeed when they embrace toil and hardship.

How can you get to the top when you are interested in turning from toil and hardship? Is it possible to achieve this? Sorry to let some people down. It is not possible. The inability to cope with adversity or hardship is making so many people to get distracted doing something else that are less important to their success.

9.       They tend to copy others wrongly: it is said that, most people in life fail because of the habit of copying others, without knowing that each one has his or her own race to run or battle to fight. What some body is doing may not fit into your race because your race is quite different from other people race. What some people are doing, will not even help themselves to run and finish their race.

If you copy such people, it then means that you will not be able to finish your own race either. Most often, most people stop fighting their battles because they are copying what other people are doing wrongly. If the people you are copying are not interested in running their race or fight their battle, you will also not be interested in running your race or fight your battle.

If they choose to be lazy, you will also choose to be lazy. You cannot achieve success with kind of habit. It will cause doom for you.     

10.   They wrongly compare themselves with others who are already above them: Why are you comparing yourself with other people?  How much do gain from the business of comparing yourself with others? Some people live their lives in sorrow because they take pleasure comparing themselves with other people.

Jealous feeling start developing in you when you when you start comparing yourself with others. Some people love to busy themselves with the business of counting other people blessing. When you cannot meet up with what you are comparing yourself with, the tendency to become depress with yourself is not negotiable.

Comparing yourself with people is one of the reason some people act in hasty manner or in rashness or in mindlessness. And what was the result of their rashness or mindlessness? They ran into poverty or they end up doing things they ought not to be doing in the first instance. Comparing your with other people is depressive indeed.   

11.   They ignore or forget their responsibilities: People choose to ignore or forget their works or duties or responsibilities for different reasons best known to the individual who choose to form that habit. From a wider perspective, people choose to ignore or forget their responsibilities either because of procrastination or they love to do every other things but what they are supposed to do.

They also form this habit because certain of the responsibilities are difficult or distasteful or unpleasant and the things they are to do makes them uncomfortable and unhappy or the work is not the kind they love to do. They also do what they are doing because, they do not want to bother or extend or trouble themselves.

Whatever be the case, ignoring or forgetting your duties or responsibilities is self-harming or self-betrayal. Why is this habit self-betrayal? Because, it will not take you to where you really want to be.

Unknowingly to people, they betray themselves day in and day out. The above issues raised here are worth noting. They are the different ways most people choose to disappoint or frustrate or betray themselves.