People Who Love to Develop High Taste They Cannot Sustain in the Long-term often Display These 10 Behaviors

 

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People Who Love to Develop High Taste They Cannot Sustain in the Long-term often Display These 10 Behaviors

Taste is a strong liking or preference for something. People tend to develop taste they cannot sustain or maintain in the long-term by themselves. Developing high taste you cannot sustain can have negative effects on your cherished goals. Many people have ended up not being able to achieve their goals as result of developing and wanting to meet up with their high taste. The question here for pondering is why do people develop taste or high taste that they cannot sustain by themselves in the long-term? To find the answer to this question, here are some reasons why most people love to develop taste or high taste they cannot sustain by themselves in the long-term:

1.     1. They are trying to please some other people:  Sometimes, some people develop high taste just to please other people. You cannot be pleasing people all the time. When you trying to please people by developing high taste, you will never get to please them.

This happen always in relationship, where one of the party is busy killing himself or herself to please the other person through the display of high taste. Developing high taste which cannot be sustain in the long run will harm the relationship. One reason why many relationship do not last is that the high taste cannot be sustain by the person that is developing it.

Developing high taste is not bad in itself but the question is can you sustain it? To ba able to sustain your high taste, you must be willing to feel the pains. That is the only way to sustain the taste.

2.     2. They want to belong: The sense of wanting to belong is one reason most people are developing       high taste which cannot be sustain in the long-term. The sense of wanting to belong is not limited to wanting the lifestyle of the people in the upper class or craving for the kind of taste that is difficult to sustain. 

It start with taking responsibilities to do what you should be doing. It is this taking responsibilities that helps you to be able to maintain any taste you are developing. When you are developing a taste, you should be mindful of how you can sustain the taste.

But where the sense of wanting to belong is only limited to craving for the taste, you will not be able to sustain such taste. Most people never get to sustain the high taste they are dying for because they are only interested in feeling only the benefits or the gains.

3.     3. They imitate or copy others: In our society of today, people love to imitate or copy others. Most of us are busy imitating other people lifestyles without minding or considering the variables at play. Your income or sources of incomes are not the same. Your social class may not be the same.

Your values are not the same. Some lifestyles are very harmful or offensive to your long-term success. When you are copying others just for the fun of it is stupidity. Many people are failing just because they are busy imitating or copying others without carefulness and thoughtfulness.  

4.     4. They are competing with other people: It is often said that life is not a competition. Yet, people are killing themselves competing with some other people. We foolishly compete with others on things we should not compete. We waste our energy struggling to compete with our friends, neighbors and other people around us.

This is what cause envy and jealousy, bitterness and anger, when you cannot meet up with the competition. The more you are into false competition, the more you will be developing taste that you cannot sustain or maintain in the long term. Stop competing, life is a journey.  

1.     5. Fake lifestyle: The word fake is something that is a counterfeit, not what it seems to be, not genuine or real. People fake their lifestyle for one reason or the other. Most often, people pretend to be who they are not either to achieve their interest or draw attention to themselves.

I think, inferiority complex is also a factor why people fake their lifestyle or pretend to be whom they are not. Pretension is a common habit in dating and relationship. In order to gain the attention of the other person, you pretend to be whom you are not.

Fake lifestyle makes you to spend your money above your income just to achieve your interest but in most cases, fake lifestyle does not pay much but harm you more. When you fake your lifestyle, you will develop a high taste you cannot sustain in the long-term.

2.     6. They are comparing themselves with some other people: Compare means to consider or describe as similar, equal, or analogous. Most people like comparing themselves with their friends or other significant people around. Sometimes, we like to compare ourselves with people unnecessary by so doing, we start developing taste that may even harm us.

Your taste can kill you. Your taste can distract you. The more you are developing high taste that you can not sustain the more you are harming yourself. Why comparing yourself?

The more you are comparing yourself with people, the more you tend to develop high taste you cannot sustain. The people you are comparing yourself with may be richer or doing well than you. So why comparing yourself.

3.     7. Self-gratification/ self-pampering: Gratification is the act or instance of satisfying. Self gratification is indiscipline with regard sensuous pleasure. It is the act of satisfying your own desires and giving yourself pleasure. When you are not discipline as to postpone your gratification in favour of future gains or long-term profit. 

Pampering is the act of indulging or gratifying a desire. It is gratifying tastes, appetites, or desires. It is overly indulgent. Pamper means to feed to the full; to feed luxuriously; to glut; as, to pamper the body or the appetite. It is to treat with excessive indulgence.

Self-pampering is the act of gratifying your desires of which some may be corrupt desires. By trying to gratify all your desires whether genuine or corrupt is what is pulling you back from doing the needful.

Self-pampering focuses on pleasing yourself or gratifying your desires. Here, your attention is on pleasure. Instant gratification is brief pleasure or a non-durable pleasure. Most times, people tend to allow instant pleasure to govern or influences them and they act based on this influences.

4.     8. Influences of friends or clique: Sometimes, friends influences themselves to develop taste they cannot meet up with. Many young persons acquired certain taste from their friends. The circle of friends you have goes a long way to influence you in developing high taste.

Developing high taste can be very offensive when you cannot sustain the taste in the long term. Many people today are regretting for developing high taste they cannot maintain or sustain. Your friends are powerful means of making you to develop high taste that you cannot sustain.

5.     9. Self-pleasing: Self-pleasing is doing things which pleases you. It is giving pleasure and satisfaction to yourself. Excessive self-pleasing can kill you. Most often, self- pleasing means going aganst the rule to attain your passion.

Young people are guilty of this. They just develop taste that is beyond their level. You can be distracted by trying to please yourself. The interest of wanting to please yourself, is making lot of people to avoid doing certain things. Self-pleasing also leads to poverty.

6.     10. Chasing of corrupt passions: Chasing after corrupt passions has caused lots of people to develop high taste they cannot sustain. Your corrupt passions forces you to put your pleasure first before any other thing. It seeks self-gratification. Your selfish desires cause you to develop high taste that you cannot sustain in the long term.

Let us reflect on the prodigal son who develop high taste he was unable to sustain in the long term. Because of going after his corrupt passions he develop high taste which he was unable to maintain or sustain in the long-run.

The result of chasing after his corrupt passions and developing high taste which cannot be sustain leads him into extreme poverty and regret. So you can see that chasing your corrupt passions will make you to develop high taste you cannot sustain in the long-run or term.      

If you must develop a high taste, you must first of all, learn to perform your tasks or works or duties very well. You must be ready to fee the pains of the high taste that you want to develop. If not you are harming youself the more and wasting your chances.