How Can I Make Him or Her to Trust Me? 6 Ways to Achieve This

 

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     How Can I Make Him or Her to Trust Me? 6 Ways to Achieve This


 

One thing you will earn is trust. Trust is the complete confidence in a person or plan etc. It is the trait of believing in the honesty and reliability of others. Nobody will automatically trust you, you just have to end your trust. To make people to trust you, you will need to earn the trust. How can I make him or her to trust me? Below are some ways to make him or her to trust you:

1.     1. Do something to make him or her like you: In a relationship, the issue of trust is a very critical one. Most persons are always skeptical about the other person. It takes some time to build trust. Your partner would not just give out his or her trust on you. You will need to earn the trust. To make your partner to trust you in any relationship, you have to do something that would usher in the trust.

Trust is a very expensive commodity in dating relationship and in relationship generally. Before someone can trust you, you have to prove yourself right before them. Do something that interest them. Do something that matter much to them that are reasonable and with your power to do. Until, you do something to make him or her to love you, you will never get his or her trust.   

2.      2. Do not pretend: Most of the relationship these days are often built on pretense.  From the start of the relationship, the relationship is faulty.  When a relationship is going or riding on pretense, the tendency for the relationship to collapse is very much high. Be yourself and do not allow pretense to govern you.

Do not be in a relationship on pretense. Let your yes be yes and your no be no. if you pretend to be good when you are not, it is just a matter of time, the relationship will break or die. Pretense in a relationship happen when you enter into relationship with a person or someone you do not really like as such. Many persons are into relationship based on what I can gain or get from the relationship and nothing more.

Do not be or stay in a relationship on pretense. If you do, you would not get the trust you craved for. In a relationship, when you are not comfortable with what is going on, say your mind. Do not pretend to be okay when it is not okay. If you partner find out that you are pretending a lot, he or she will not put his or her trust on you.    

3.  Be truthful: Be truthful is always the slogan of keeping and maintaining a relationship.  People love telling lies. When a relationship is full with lies, your partner will find it difficult to trust you. It is what you give that you will get. Learn to be truthful at all times.

When you are always truthful, your partner will reciprocate. Most people in most of the relationship, prefer using lies to get what they want. Most relationship that never last, were characterized by lies. To get someone trust, be truthful.

4.      4. Trust them (him/her): One of the rule for trust in any relationship, is that trust them. You need to learn to trust people in order to be able to get their own trust. If you cannot trust me why expecting me to trust you. Trust is reciprocal. Trust them until they betray the trust. This is one principle of trust.

If you want your partner or people to trust you, trust them until they abuse the trust you have on them. Because of past experiences, we may distrust people we are not supposed to distrust. This is why, you must first learn to trust people until they betray your trust. So, if you want people to trust you, trust them first.

5.     5. Be kind to him/her: If you want people or your partner to trust you faster, learn to be kind to them or him or her. When you are kind to your partner, your partner will learn to trust you. But when you are not kind to your partner, your partner will have doubt about you. Most often, people tend to trust others who are kind to them.

 It is very easy to influence other people because of an act of kindness. In human relationship, men (in the context of human beings) are conquered by act of kindness. So, if you want your partner to trust you, be kind to him or her.

6.      6. Love them the way they are: If you want your partner or other people to quickly trust you, learn to love them the way they are. No one is perfect. People have their flaws and you cannot take away that. When you love your partner the way he or she is, he or she will learn to trust you.

When you do not love him or her the way he or she is, the tendency for him or her to doubt you is normal. You can easily influences others when you love them and they know that you do love them. In relationship and friendship, men are conquered by love.  When you love others without attached conditions, you have power over them.

If you can easily influence other people because you love them, then it is very easy for them to trust you if you love them. To make him or her trust you, love him or her the way he or she is. Love is very powerful. That is why, if love goes wrong, nothing goes right.

Learning to make other people to trust you is a journey. It begins with you. It is not magical.

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