8 Habits of People Who Get Busy Counting Other People Blessing Rather Than Counting Their Own

 

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8 Habits of People Who Get Busy Counting Other People Blessing Rather Than Counting Their Own

Each one of us is duty bound to be counting his or her own blessing and not to be busy counting the blessing of other people. Blessing is a desirable state. It is favour, good fortune, good luck, and mercy. It is the result or gains or benefits or profits of hardwork or labor of your hands. The more you keep counting the blessing of other people, instead of you to keep counting your own, the sadder and sorrowful you become. Why do some people take the pain to be busy counting the blessing of others? Here are some why and why some people get busy counting other people blessing:

1.     1. Jealousy and envy: The word jealousy is a feeling of jealous envy (especially of a rival). Envy on the other hand is a feeling of grudging admiration and desire to have something that is possessed by another. When you are govern by jealousy and envy, you will lose the best of you and the worst of you will get the better of you.

Jealousy and envy are forces that compel us to do something we ought not to do.  Jealousy and envy make some people to get busy counting other people blessing and have no time to count their own.

The more you are jealous and envious about other people blessing, the more you waste your time counting other people blessing and the more you shorten your life.

2.     2. Selfishness with greediness: Selfishness is stinginess resulting from a concern for your own welfare and a disregard for others. It is the quality or state of being selfish; exclusive regard to one’s own interest or happiness; that supreme self-love or self-preference which leads a person to direct his purpose to the advancement of his own interest, power, or happiness, without regarding those of others.

It undue love of self, self-interest, private interest, illiberality, meanness, self-love. Greediness is the quality of being greedy; vehement and selfish desire. Greedy is having a keen desire for anything; vehemently desirous; eager to obtain; avaricious; as, greedy of gain.

Selfishness and greediness are twin forces that cause some people to be busy counting other people blessing. Selfishness and greediness are in support of the negative principle of life, let me alone get little luck. And frown at the positive principle which says, let us both get little luck.

The meanings of selfishness and greediness given above speak volume to this.

3.     3. Laziness: In most cases, hard working people have no time counting other people blessing because they are busy do the things they should be doing to make their dreams come through. Hardworking people know that blessings are rewards or gains or profits of hard work.

The bible said, that when you work hard you will become a leader but if you are lazy, you would not succeed. Laziness can cause people to form the habit of counting other people blessings or gains. Laziness is the inactivity that happen when one dislike work or show disinclination to work.

4.     4. Eating alone:  Eating alone is another selfish or negative principle that some people uphold very strongly. Eating alone cause you to pay attention to yourself. You do not care about others. It is about you alone should feel the gains while other should feel the pains.

You love eating alone but you do not want other people to eat alone. You love to eat in their gains. You are eating your own gains alone but yet you are interested in the gains of others. Those who are only interested in eating alone are always busier counting other people blessings.

The blessing should be for them. But the blessing is not gotten free. It is the profits of laboring for what you have prayed for. When you have not labor for what you have prayed for, the blessing would not come.   

5.   5. Let me alone gets little luck: When you are holding onto this principle, let me alone gets little luck, it means that you alone should be what matters. Let me alone gets little luck is conflicting with let us both get little luck. When other are getting little luck, you will be come uncomfortable with yourself.

You give in to undue sadness. Let me alone gets little luck is a poor principle of life. Those who are not generous love it. Generous people are happy when others are progressing even when they do not have.

Those who operate or practice this principle are those who get busy or busier counting other people blessings.

6.     6. Corrupt desires: Very often, most people allow their corrupt desires to influences or dominates them. They act based on their corrupt desires. One reason for interpersonal conflict amongst people is the quest to gratify their corrupt desires.

When you are govern by you corrupt desires, you will love to be counting other people blessings. Those who love counting other people blessing do so because they have desires they have not achieve and when they see others achieving those desires they lose the best in them and allow the worst in them to influence them.

7.     7. Comparing oneself with others negatively: We love comparing ourselves with ourselves negatively. This is where our problems with ourselves often begins. In the process of comparing oneself with some other people, the tendency to develop ill feelings towards others is sure.

The more you love comparing yourself with others negatively, the more you will love to be counting their blessings. And the more you are busier counting other people blessing, the more you tend to lose the best of you.

Why are you suffering yourself comparing yourself with others? You lose more doing so.

8.     8. They indulge in false competition with other people: When you are in a false completion with other people who do not even know they are in a competition with you, you will always be interested in counting their blessings.

When you cannot meet up with the false competition, you created by yourself, you end up most often giving in to resentment. Resentment is a feeling of deep and bitter anger and ill-will.  And anger shortens one’s life. Why creating false competition out of nothing.

By creating a false competition, when life is not a competition. You are shortening your life. So stop counting other people blessing. Learn to always count your own blessings.

Why do I or you love counting other people blessings? Do you know that counting other people blessings shortens your life? Why are you wasting your time counting other people blessing? Learn to do the things that you should be doing to make your dreams come through.