15 Reasons Why Most People Who Do Not Know Where They Are Going To Often Arrive At Nowhere

 

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15 Reasons Why Most People Who Do Not Know Where They Are Going To Often Arrive At Nowhere

Everyone is on a journey but most people arrived at nowhere. Everyone chooses his or her own path but most people arrived at nowhere. Most people are running well but most people often arrived at nowhere. You are doing what you love and love what you are doing, and yet, you arrived at nowhere. Most people love what makes them comfortable and happy but most people arrived at nowhere. If it feels good do it and if it does not, do not do it yet, most people arrived at nowhere. Arrive at means to reach a destination, either real or abstract. It is to reach a point in time or a certain state or level. It is to hit the intended target or goal. It means to catch up, come through, find, get at, get through, surmount, win, get to, make, come to, reach, and succeed. Below are some of the reasons most people arrive at nowhere:

1.     1. They do nothing about their problems: Everyone has and have his or her problems. Everyone will find solution or solutions to his or her problems. You either do something about your problems or forget about the problems. Those who look for solutions to their problems do so by going through their problems.

 But those who are not seeking for solutions to their problems do so by going around their problems. When you are doing something about your problems, you are heading somewhere and the more you do something about your problems, the more you arrive at where you intended to reach or get to.

When you are doing nothing about your problems, you are are heading nowhere. The more you do nothing about your problems, the more you arrive at nowhere.  

2.     2. They do not know what they actually need or want out of life: We are attracted to so many things in our lives. Some of these things are not too necessary that is why it is said, that the things we love the most often kill us the most. Most people do not know what they actually want or need. They go for everything that comes their way.

They are unable to filter the real things they need or want. When you do not know what you actually wants, you end up going for everything. Some of the things people go for are corrupt inclinations or passions or interests.

When you do not know what you actually want, the tendency to choose the wrong things is very high. People go after the things they choose. The more you do not know what you actually want out of life, the more you arrive at nowhere.

3.     3. They are in the wrong path or out of the path: The path that leads to where you are going is quite different from the path that leads to nowhere. When you are on the right path or the path that leads to your cherished desire, it means you are following your dreams. The right path is the way to your dreams.

 Follow your dreams. They know the way. The more you are on the path that leads to where you are going, the more you reach where you are going or arrive at where you are going or heading to. The wrong path is that path which leads to nowhere.

When you are on this path, you will never get to where you want to be or arrive at. Most times, people are doing something or they are active but what they doing will lead them nowhere. If they are always on this path, they will never arrive at their destination or where they really love to reach or hit.

When what you are doing would not take you to where you are going, it simply means that, what you are doing is not enough or okay or the wrong things. When you are in the wrong path or out of the path, you will arrive at nowhere. Most people are running well but they are out of the path. Where will they arrive at? Surely they will arrive nowhere. Because they are not on the path.    

4.     4. They love groping the low way:  most people love groping the low way instead of climbing the high way. The high way by its nature is full of distasteful or depressing or unpleasant or difficult duties or works or tasks or responsibilities. Because of this features of the high way or path, people love groping the low way.

The low way is full of fleeting pleasure or instant gratification or momentary pleasure. Most people grope the low way because they never get or set their priority right. The more you love groping the low way, the more you arrive at nowhere.

5.     5. They act without prudence/discerning: People's act or do certain things or carryout certain actions without prudence or discerning on daily occasion. Success is a daily things. Discerning is having or revealing keen insight and good judgement.

Discerning helps you to judge properly between two things to ascertain their worth before doing them. Prudence is discretion in practical affairs. It is knowing how to avoid embarrassment or distress. Acting without prudence or discerning, will make you to do the things you should not do or be doing.

Most people do arrive at nowhere or not get to or reach their target due to the fact that they are acting without prudence or discerning. They just do what they like. Just doing what you like is not enough, it must conform to prudence or come forth from discerning. The habit of just doing what one like is making many people to arrive at nowhere.

6.     6. They act hastily and rashly: One other factor that makes people to arrive at nowhere is that they act hastily and rashly. Hastily means to act in a hurried or hasty manner. While, rashly means in a hasty and foolhardy manner. Most people are poor because they acted hastily and rashly without thoughtfulness and care.

When you are acting in hasty manner, the tendency to commit more mistakes is a sure bet.  And the possibility of not doing those things properly or correctly is very high. Some of the duties or works will be partially done well and some may be left undone. The more you or people act hastily and rashly, the more they arrive nowhere.

7.     7. They do not know where they are going but they think they do: Most people think they know what, they are doing when in the real sense, they do not know. People think that what they are doing is okay when it is not okay. In most cases, people think they know where they are going to when they do not really know.

When you do not know where you are going to but you are thinking you do, you will be heading nowhere. When what you are doing is not what you should be doing, it means you do not know, where you are going. Sometimes, people make mistakes but they never own those mistakes or accept that they make mistakes.

The truth here is that self-illusion is responsible why most people do not know where they are going but are thinking they know. Not knowing where you are going or what you are doing but you think you do will make you to arrive at nowhere.

8.     8. Lack of realistic role models: Role models are guides to your doing you own things. They may not live closer to you. But yet, they serve as role models to you or other people. It is a great thing to have realistic or positive role models. By looking up to them to emulate or learn from them is a virtue of its own.

When you have a realistic role model, he or she will help you greatly to the right things. By looking up to them, they serve as a motivating factor or a motivator to make your dreams come through. But there are also role models who are not realistic, they are unrealistic or reverse role models.

If your role models are unrealistic or reverse, they will not help you in any way. Rather, they will compound your problems. Example of an unrealistic and reversed role models is the prodigal son. When your role models are unrealistic or when you lack realistic role models in your life, you will arrive at nowhere or you will find hard to arrive at somewhere.

9.     9. Negligence: Negligence is the failure to perform your duties or responsibilities as at when required. It is the failure to act with the prudence that a reasonable person would exercise under the same circumstances.

It is the trait of neglecting responsibilities and lacking concern. When you do not want to do your responsibilities, it means you are neglecting your duties. To arrive at somewhere or to get to your target or reach your intended goal, you will need to be preforming your duties properly.

Negligence makes people to arrive at nowhere. The more you fail to perform your responsibilities, the more you arrive at nowhere or the less you arrive at somewhere.

Negligence make people to refuse to take a step or steps or to make attempt at doing something. The failure to take steps in doing what you are supposed to be doing or make attempts at doing the things you should be doing, makes you to arrive at nowhere.

10. 10. They fail to finish the race or the journey:  You are running a race or you are in a race. You got to finish you race before thinking of the prize or the outcome. When you fail to finish you race, you cannot be talking about the prize.

 Until you pay the price, you will not get the prize. The reward of any good works or great deeds comes at the end of the day when, the works have being completed or finished. You can never arrive somewhere when you have not yet finished the race.

It is the learning to finish the race that makes you to arrive at somewhere. But if not, you will arrive at nowhere.  

11. 11. They do not like to leave their comfort zone: Most people do not want to leave their comfort zone. They are comfortable with there comfort zone. When you are comfortable with your comfort zone, you would not want to trouble yourself to go somewhere. You will have nowhere to go to and no aim to catch up with.

People who do not want to leave their comfort zone never get to somewhere. Until you become discomfort able with your comfort zone, you will not want to do something about your condition.

 When you are comfortable with what you are doing even when what you are doing is not enough, or wrong you will surely arrive at nowhere.     

12. 12. Unadventurous/timidity: Unadventurous means lacking in boldness. Boldness means the trait of being willing to undertake things that involve risk or danger. Arriving at somewhere requires boldness. The emphasis on boldness is on the willingness to do things that involve risk or danger.

To get to your target or intended goal, involve risks. It is the willingness to face these risks that counts or matters. If you are not capable of facing these risks, you will not be able to arrive at somewhere but instead you will arrive at nowhere.

The opposite of boldness is timidity. Timidity is fearfulness in venturing into new and unknown places or activities. The absence of boldness is timidity. Any time you want venture into doing new and unknown activities, timidity hinder you from taking a step.

Making attempt at what you want to achieve becomes a problem to you because of your timidity. Your timidity will never allow you to arrive at somewhere. Unadventurous or timidity will always make you to arrive at nowhere.

13. 13. Lack of sternness/strictness: Strictness or sternness is a conscientious attention to rules and details. Strictness is uncompromising resolution. When you find it too difficult or hard to give a conscientious attention to rules and details, you will be distracted to do something not too important. It is the ability to follow the rules that bring the miracle.

Most people do not like to obey or follow the rules of winning or succeeding. They love cutting corners. But most often, cutting corners do not solve the problem on ground. Cutting corners often worsen our problems. Uncompromising resolution is the element which helps you to win or succeed.

When you make a resolution, stick to it like magnet. You can never arrive at somewhere when you lack sternness or strictness. Most people arrive nowhere because of the lack of sternness and or strictness.  

14. 14. Wrong circle of friends: To get to somewhere, we sometimes need the help of friends. The type of friends that you have can make or mar you chances of winning. If your friends are the good circle of friends, they will make you to arrive somewhere.

But when your friends are the wrong circle of friends, they will mar your chances of arriving at somewhere, instead they will make you to arrive at nowhere. The prodigal son was having many fake or wrong circle of friends.

They were unable to help him arrive at somewhere because they are wrong circle of friends. They never have what it takes to arrive at somewhere. So he never arrive somewhere but arrive nowhere.                                                                                                                                                       

15. 15. Lack of Success: Success is an attainment that is successful. Something that is successful is success. Success is the ability to chase or pursue your dream and keep chasing it without give in to despondent or despair. The more you chase your dreams, the more you catch your dreams.

And the less you chase your dreams, the less you catch your dreams. Success is the quality of absolute refusal to quit until your cherished purposes are achieve or attain. Most people who lack this quality cannot arrive at somewhere.

To arrive at your target purposes, or somewhere, you have to have power of absolute refusal to give up or quit until your cherished purposes come through. Most people arrive nowhere because they lack the quality called success.

If you want to arrive somewhere and if you must arrive at somewhere, you must learn to avoid these factors explained above.