11 Ways You Can Make People to Celebrate You Even When They Do Not Feel Like Doing It

 

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11 Ways You Can Make People to Celebrate You Even When They Do Not Feel Like Doing It

To be celebrated you need to opt your game. It is hard work on its own. You cannot be celebrated by people if you just fold your hands. People will not celebrate you because you are beautiful or handsome. They can only celebrate you when you display or showcase your character or the attitude you are made of. The term celebrate according to online English Dictionary, and Advance English Dictionary means to praise, extol, laud, applaud, magnify, glorify, bless, commend, give praise to, make famous. It also means to assign great social importance to something; it is to honor, to respect and to regard highly. The aim of this article is to help the readers to become aware of the things that make other people to celebrate them. Below are some of the ways you can make people to celebrate you even when they do not feel like doing it:

1.    1.  Learn to always do your works or duties properly or rightly: Your works or duties are the things you do that nobody pays you for doing them at the moment but in the long-run, those works or duties bring you into limelight. When you learn to do your works or duties properly and rightly, the benefits are long-lasting.

 By doing your works or duties properly and rightly, you are trusting yourself into winning and victory. One big problem of people is that they do not like to do their works or duties properly and rightly. Take for example, in the school setting, some students do not like copying their note rightly and properly.

They give reasons for not doing so. But little do they know that they are forming wrong attitude to life. Your character may be display in big moment but it is in small moment that they are formed. So learn to do your works or duties or responsibilities properly and rightly.

2.     2. Always ensure to do the right things at the right time: Another habit that can make people to celebrate you even when they do not feel like doing it is to always ensure that you do the right things at the right times it is very necessary and essential to your growth.

When you formed the habit of doing the right things at the right times, the tendency to catch your dreams faster is very high. Most people prefer the individual who does his or her works or duties at the right times than the person who like doing his or her works at the wrong times.

 As a teacher I like students who do their works at the right times but the students who do their works at the wrong times may invite punishment to himself or herself or may lose some marks for not doing their works at the right times. So it is with other works of people.

3.     3. Learn not to over depend on other people: Over depending on other people can affect your self-esteem negatively. It often do. You tend to lack certain abilities you ordinarily supposed to have or develop because of over depending on other people to be your miracles.

Too much depending on people will limit your strength and weakens your vigor and vitality. You cannot be able to make your own decisions and stick to them. It can hinder or prevent you from fighting your battle because you are used to over depending on people for answers.

Life is the most challenging exam. Some people fail or are failing because of over depending on others. Not knowing that they need to stand for themselves.

4.     4. Always strive to be the best: No one is perfect but you can strive to be the best. Always tell yourself that you are good or strong enough. People who strive to be the best always strive for the best or go for the best. They give their best effort into their works.

They do not like to compromise their standards. They do well by upholding higher ideals. To get the best out of life or out of your works, you must give in the best. To be the best you must be hardworking and strong and industrious.

When you strive to be the best, you will definitely gain the respect of people you come across or who come across you. You are the best if you choose to be one because you are all that you choose to be.     

5.     5. Step up your game and be good at what you do: People will not just like you automatic like magic. You need to do something to trigger this affection from people. One of such things to do is to step up your game and be good at what you do. When you are good at what you do, you automatically influences people to pick interest in you and in what you are doing.

I have come to discovered that when you are good at what you do, you will command a lot of followership and respect. To make people to celebrate you even when they do not like or feel like doing it, learn to step up your game and be good at what you do. To be good at what you do, keep improving yourself through constant practice.

6.     6. Be a shinning example for others to follow or emulate: How can you become a shinning example to other people? You become a shinning example by what you do. “Example,” says Edmund Burke, “is the school of mankind and they will learn at no other.” Based on this, you can influence other people by the way you do your things.

To conquer other people, learn from what Giosue Borsi said, “Men are conquered only by love and kindness, by quiet discreet example which does not humiliate them and does not constrain them to give in. They dislike to be attacked by the man who has no other idea but to overcome them.”  

So when you are a shinning example to people you easily influences them to like and celebrate you even when they do not feel like doing it.

7.     7. Learn to celebrate yourself first: There are many ways that you can first start to celebrate yourself before other people follow suit. You learn to celebrate yourself by doing the things you should be doing. By taking steps to do the needful and by going through your problems.

You further celebrate yourself by seeking out and do what is difficult and what challenges you. You can also celebrate yourself by loving yourself. This involves facing the risks or paying the price. It has nothing to do with evading or escaping your duties.

It is by celebrating yourself first that others can now begin to do the same. Until you learn to celebrate yourself, nobody will like to celebrate you.

8.     8. Be focus on the main things: You are either busy doing every other things or you are serious busy doing the main things. It is still your choice. But one of the choice is self-harming. Instead of getting busy doing the main things, the prodigal son was busy doing every other things possible. What was the outcome? He eventually harm himself by becoming poorer than he ever imagine.

What happened to all his so called friends? They all abandon him and ran their own ways.  The solely reason why he was not celebrated was that he ignore and forsake the main things. The main things are the things you should do that bring your dreams into reality.

Every other things are distractions. When you forsake your works or duties or responsibilities, people will also forsake you. It is the performance of your duties or tasks or works that help you to sustain or maintain your celebration.

9.     9. Stop wandering about aimlessly: There are people who take pleasure wandering about aimlessly doing nothing or doing the unnecessary things. People make their daily choices of what to do and what not to do. These choices of people make them or mar them. Success is a daily thing.

It revolves around your daily activities or actions. Instead of standing by the task or work assigned to them, they please themselves by wandering about all over the field aimlessly. It will be very difficult for people to celebrate you with such attitude to your work.

Your heart is calling you to stand by your work. Why can’t you listen? Listen to the call of your heart by learning to stand by your work. It is by standing by your work that forces other people to celebrate you.

10. 10. Finish your work/complete your work: Finish your work is one success principle. The emphasis is laid on the word ‘finish’ or ‘complete’. The word finish or complete means to come or bring to a finish or an end. The work you are doing becomes a quality work when it is completed.

You get paid for doing a quality work and not for doing a shabby work. People value quality work far more than a shabby work. In short, nobody likes a shabby work. When your work is incomplete or unfinished, you would not get the praise. Until your work becomes a quality work that is when people will celebrate you and for your work to be painted a quality work, it must be completed.

For instance, in as school setting, the teacher will only celebrate students whose notes are complete while those whose notes are incomplete are punished and forced to finish their notes. The notecopying by students is the major work of the students. So, the teachers make them understand the importance of getting such work done and the benefits attached to doing so.

The more you fail to finish your work, the more your work or duty keep piling up. The joy of celebration lies in your ability to always finish or complete your works well or properly or rightly.

11. 11. Keep your light shinning and refuse to cover it with a bowl or put it off: By keeping your light shinning it simply mean to keep doing the things you should be doing, or should do. It is not about doing just what you love and what makes you comfortable and happy.

There are things you do which make you comfortable and happy but which cannot contribute to your success but instead, those things will limit your success.

It is only when you are doing the things that you should be doing that is when your light keeps shinning. Any other things which are not part of what you should be doing does not keep your light on, they quench your light unknowingly.

Each and every time, you want people to celebrate you, be sure and ready to do the things discussed here. You need them.