11 Reasons Why You Must Still Go After the Necessary Evils That Makes You Unhapppy

 

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11 Reasons Why You Must Still Go After the Necessary Evils That Makes You Unhappy

There are many things in life that make people sad or unhappy. Yet they are not bad things per say. They are described as necessary evils because people do not like them. People like the things that only make them happy and comfortable. While those other things that make them uncomfortable and unhappy, they tend to ignore or avoid or dodge. Most people are not comfortable with some principles which are stated in a tough way. There are some principles which are more of distractions, they are created with soft and sweet wordings. For examples, the following principles can be misleading: Love what you do and do what you love, if it makes you happy and comfortable do it and if not leave it, or if it feels good, do it and if it does not, do not do it. Any thing that discomfort them, they avoid. Every works or duties or responsibilities which are distasteful or depressing or unpleasant or disagreeable but are the things you should do even though they makes you uncomfortable and unhappy are called or referred to as necessary evils. Here are some reasons you must still go after necessary evils whether you like it or not:

1.     1. Returning a thousand times to the most disagreeable or most depressing duty makes people unhappy but helps you to gain the object in view: Returning back again and again and again or a thousand times to a most disagreeable duty or a most depressing duty make people to be uncomfortable and unhappy. No one likes to return again and again on several occasions to the most distasteful duty to get it done.

People prefer to engage their works without hindrances or difficulties. Any work which is very rough or tough, people prefer to avoid. One necessary evil that no one can do away with is the returning a thousand times to the most disagreeable or depressing duty.

Most people tend to give up too soon in the face of meeting a depressing duty. It is the returning a thousand times to the most disagreeable that helps you to gain the object in view. Without returning back as possible to the most depressing duty, the duty will remain the way it is undone, thereby prevent you from gaining the object in view.

2.     2. Duty first; pleasure thereafter makes most people sad: As the principle goes, the first thing is duty and not pleasure but most people prefer to twist it to pleasure first; duty thereafter. Urgent pleasure or momentary pleasure makes people to lose their senses as exhibited by the prodigal son.

When you put your flitting or temporary pleasure as a priority over your duty, you will never get to your cherished desires which is your long-lived gain or profit. One necessary evil is your duty or duties. Some people because of their lazy attitude, they always tend to be indisposed to actions.

They enjoy habitual disinclination to work. Most people dislike work. They only love the pleasure. Buy unknowingly to most people, it is the work that sustains the pleasure. It is the doing of the work that increases your success rate. Instant gratification steals your long-term gain. To achieve your highest purpose or purposes, your duty must be your priority and not your pleasure.  

3.     3. Working hard troubles the heart of people: Another necessary evil is working hard. Lot of people do not like the idea of working hard. It disturbed them when they hear it. Working hard troubles the heart of many people and makes them unhappy and uncomfortable but take them to their glory.

Hard works pay that is why it is said that, working hard makes you a leader but be lazy and you would not succeed. Whether you called it smart work or hard work, it is the same thing. Until you are working hard, you can never reach your glory.

You cannot reach your glory by simply folding of your hands. You get to your glory by your toiling or working hard. The success principle, ‘you must not turn from toil and hardship’ does not go down well with most people because it makes people unhappy and uncomfortable. If you do not work hard sorry, you would not get to your glory.

4.     4. Many people are not happy to do the work at the level of their dreams or that is attached to their cherished desires: The truth is that your dreams will never come true when you are unable to do the work attached to your dreams. Most people love doing the works which are below the works at the level of their dreams. You can spend all of your time doing the works which are below your dreams, the truth is that, they would not help you to make your dreams come true. The works at the level of your dreams that matter and not the ones below your dreams.

You cannot achieve your cherished desires by spending much of your time in doing the works below your dreams. Most people interest are drawn to the works below their dreams because, the works make them happy and comfortable while the works at the level of their dreams make them sad. Most of the works that are equal to your dreams or people dreams are necessary evils. They cannot be avoided if your dreams will come true.

5.   5. Postponement of gratification makes people uncomfortable: Another necessary evil is the issue of postponement of gratification. Self-gratification is driving many people crazy and makes them to do all they can do to feel the gratification. The act of postponement of gratification is a great quality or ability that if you do not have it your self-gratification will hamper your durable and long-lived profit. The purpose of postponing your gratification is for you to achieve the long-run gain. Most people do not like to postpone their gratification because they lack the will to do so. If you must gain your long-lasting pleasure or profit, you must learn to postpone you self-gratification.

6.     6. To kill yourself or go the extra-mile makes most people unhappy: It is in the killing of oneslf that usher in your blessing. If you want God to bless you, you must be willing on your own part to kill yourself. Most people are not ready to kill themselves to get their blessing.

Your blessing works by rules. To kill yourself is one necessary evil that you cannot avoid, if you must get to your blessing. Your blessing respond to your ability to kill yourself. The faster you kill yourself, the faster your blessing come around or shine in your life.

Going the extra-mile makes people to give in to undue sadness. But going the extra-mile is needed to bring your blessing to you. I cannot kill myself is the problem most people are facing which deprived them of their blessing.

7.     7. Climbing the high or higher way makes people uncomfortable and sad: Most people are not comfortable with climbing the high way because it is not what they love and the road is not good to climb. It is very rough they say. They are looking for the smooth path without difficulties and challenges that is why most people are comfortable with groping the low way.

The low way makes people happy, no obstacles but only simple tasks. This way or path is filled with flitting or brief pleasure, so people love groping the low way. But the unfortunate thing here is that, the low way even though it makes people happy, it is only filled with short-lived pleasure nothing more to gain.

The high way is full of obstacles and challenges, it is also filled of treasure. The treasure most people are looking for is only find on the high way. In another word, it is on the higher way that long-lasting or durable pleasure are found. Most of the time, people allowed their short-lived pleasure to dominate them and thereby affects their decisions negatively.

8.     8. Bringing all of your strength into your work does not sound great to many people: Most people, love to bring into their work a bit of their strength. They prefer to reserve the best of their strength to do something of less important.

Instead of using your full strength in doing your work, you rather prefer to complain why you cannot bring your full strength to do your work. It is this poor attitude that is making people not to be willing to inconvenient themselves.

Bringing your full strength or all of your strength into your work is a necessary evil but it is the using of your full strength that does the miracle or save you or help you to fight your battle till the end or complete your work properly.

9.     9. You must labor for the things you prayed for: Another necessary evil that you must contend with is the ability to labor for the things you prayed for. You cannot gain the things you prayed for without laboring for them. This make people to be sad.

They are not happy about laboring for. Why is this so? Because they only want to feel the gain and not the labor or the pain. Many people are of the view that favor is better than labor but how can you get the favor when God also counts on you.

As much as you do not like labor because it makes you unhappy and uncomfortable, you can never get the crown. To get or gain the crown, you must be ready to labour for the things you prayed for.

10. 10. Finishing the race is seen as a kind of punishment: Finishing the race takes away the smile of people, and makes them unhappy but it is in the finishing the race that you get the prize. The prize always come at the end of the day after you finish the task given to you. You cannotget the prize when you have not finished your race. Until you finish your race do not even talk about the prize.  Most people are not comfortable with the idea of ‘you must finish the race’. Whether this idea makes happy or not, it is good to finish your race. If you do not finish the race, you would not get the prize.        

11. 11. Bearing with the journey makes people sad: Most people are not happy bearing with the journey but your freedom lies at the end of the journey. The journey is a necessary evil. You cannot avoid the journey.

You must be prepared to bear the journey. It is you patient in bearing with the journey that leads you into your freedom. You can only experience freedom when you bear your journey. The journey is tough and only the tough keeps or gets going when the journey becomes tough.

It is your journey. Everyone has his or her journey. No one will leave his or her journey to travel your journey. You need to force youself to travel your journey if you must experience your freedom. The truth is that no freedom is free; you need to fight to get one.

If all the things I or you love that make me or you happy and cool cannot lead me or you to my or your cherished desires or highest purposes, it is better I or you say goodbye to them and change my or your direction to where I or you can gain my or your dreams no matter how the direction makes me or you uncomfortable and unhappy.