10 Ways You Can Really Make Your Partner Stays Happy

 

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10 Ways You Can Really Make Your Partner Stays Happy

It is not really easy to make someone happy if the person choose not to be happy. Happiness is a state of the mind. It is one choice to make himself or herself happy. But as an individual, you can also to some extend contribute to make other people happy as well. How do you make your partner stays happy? Here are some ways you can make your partner stays happy:

1.     1. Listen to the other: According to Paul Tilach, the first duty of love is to listen. It is the duty of the both partners to listen to the other when communicating between each other. Effective listening helps to make your communication effective. Effective communication takes place when the receiver of the message understand what the source is saying. Without listening to each other, communication will not be effective and smooth.

Most times in relationship communication, one partner may try to be dominating the other during conversation or one partner is not ready to listen to the other. This often makes the relationship sour and then breakups.

One of the major cause of relationship breakups is the lack of ability of either one or both partiners, to listen to the other in the communication process which often take place between them. To make your partner stay happy in the relationship, learn to listen attentively to the other.

2.     2. Tell him or her about himself or herself: Do not take all the pleasure drawing attention to yourself during conversation with your partner. Focus your attention on the other partner. Tell him or her about himself or herself.  Learn adopt or adapt a communication style that allows you to give attention to the other person.

Give the other partner the chance to talk about himself or herself. Be broadminded in your communication approach. This helps in enhancing and promoting the relationship. If you are fond of talking more about yourself or drawing attention to yourself in a major conversation or communication, it shows that you are selfish.

This will prevent the other partner from seeing you as savior in the relationship. So learn to tell your partner about himself or herself. This is one sure way of really making your partner stays happy.

3.     3. Praise: Learn to praise your partner for the effort being made so far in the relationship. The term praise means an expression of approval and commendation. It is to commend; to applaud; to express approbation of; to laud; - applied to a person or his acts. Each partner must learn to praise the other for what the other partner is doing in the relationship.

When you praise you are celebrating the effort of the other, this increases the sense of responsibilities of the other partner in the relationship. Praise increases the self-worth of both partners. So to make your partner stays happy learn to praise him or her sincerely.

4.     4. Appreciate and recognize the effort being made: The word recognition means approval. It is the act of recognizing, or the state of being recognized; acknowledgement; formal avowal; knowledge confessed or avowed; notice. It the state or quality of being recognized or acknowledged. Taking notice of what your partner is doing in the relationship is highly recommendable to sustain the relationship.

To recognize an effort means to express obligation, thanks, or gratitude for effort done. One of the reason for why some relationship do not last is the issue of lack of recognition. One or both partners find it hard to recognize the effort of the other. The term appreciate means to hold dear.

It is to prize, value, or treasure. It is to recognize with gratitude; be grateful for something done. So to make your partner stays happy learn to appreciate and recognize the little effort they put in making the relationship work.

5.     5. Be caring: Learn to share the pain or put yourself in the shoe of the other person. Feel the pains of each other. Show some consideration towards his or her expectation. When your partner shares his or her expectation with you, do well to be caring by showing your concern towards those expectations if they fall in line with your strong principles. Be caring also mean to be doing all the things that can sustain the relationship by focusing on your partner.

6.     6. Be friend your partner: It is often said that, what breaks a relationship is not lack of love but lack of friendship in the relationship. When there is no friendship within the relationship, the relationship would not last. Your best friend should be your partner.

In some dating relationship, one of the partner has a best friend called bestie which can be a male or female other than the person he or she is dating. In another word, this particular partner is dating more than one person at the same time.

If your partner is not your bestie, then there is a question mark about that relationship. Your best male or female friend should be your partner. Many dating relationship had crumble in the past and are still crumbling due to the influence of the best friend called bestie.

7.     7. Make each other laugh: The ability to make your partner laugh is a plus for the relationship. A relationship where both parties lack the ability to make the other partner to laugh will quickly collapse. Each partner must have the ability to make the relationship to work. If they are really serious about the relationship.

One of such method is the ability to make your partner laugh during conversation or communication. This helps to reduce tensions within the relationship. So to make your partner stays happy, learn to make each other laugh.

8.     8. Surprise each other sometimes: I have come to find out or discover that every thing women wants in a relationship, men also wants them as much as women do. This is the whole truth. The man should surprise his lady with gifts and the woman should also surprise her man sometimes with gifts.

Relationship is not meant only for one person to build and sustain. No relationship will last if it is left for one partner to build and to suatain. The truth is that the both partner shape the relationship they build and thereafter, the relationship shape them. On one partner can do it all alone.

9.     9. Do not pretend: Do not pretend. Learn to share your feelings. In most dating relationship this days, one or both partners are just pretending to be concerned about the relationship whereas they are not. When you do not want to let your partner know what is going on with you, you are buzy hiding your feelings. Some times, some men in their attempt to win the lady, they will be living a fake life just to please the lady in question.

Pretension is harmful. When you are pretending to be who you are not, it means you are telling lies to that you partner. Be yourself. Share your feelings. Your feelings must not be interested to the other partner. It is a matter of wanting your partner to know the truth of what is going on with you. So that he or she can make up his or her mind on what to do next.

One or both of the partner may pretend or be pretending in the relationship and this may affect the relationship. Some relationship has gone sour because of the issue of pretense or pretension. To really make your partner stays happy stop pretending and learn to share your feelings.

10. 10. Learn to intimately communicate with your partner:  The ability to communicate intimately is good asset in the relationship. It strengthens the relationship more than ever. When one or both partner lack the ability to communicate intimately, it then become a problem that can break the relationship.

For both partner to know each other more, they must learn to intimately communicate with each other. Intimate communication between the partners create mutual bond between them. By so doing each partner cannot do without the other. Because as it is said, two head is better than one in a relationship.                                                                                  

The above are the factors or combinations of factors to employ, if you really want to make your partner stays happy.