You Cannot See That You Are Stronger Than You Know Because You Often Display These 16 Behaviors

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You Cannot See That You Are Stronger Than You Know Because You Often Display These 16 Behaviors

Man is stronger than he thinks or know but some certain things or factors have contributed in making him to belief or accept that he or she is not strong or powerful enough to do the things he or she should be doing. The truth is you are stronger than you think or know. You can do every things worth doing that form part of your glory. Another truth here is that nothing can stop you or pull or draw you back but you or except you. You are the best if you think so and you are still the worst if you think so. Let’s ponder on the following reasons why and why you cannot see that you are stronger than you think or know:

1.     1. Self-distrust or mistrust: One serious reason why most people do not know that they are stronger than what they are thinking about themselves. Because of self-distrust, people are doubting themselves into defeat and mediocrity. By so doing they become defeated in accepting that they are not good enough to achieve whatever they wants. By accepting defeat and mediocrity, they tend to pull back from doing the things they can actually do.

Self-distrust weakens the mind and then weakens the strength. It affects your mentality negatively. And thus, your reality. Remember, mentality affects reality positively or negatively as the case may be. Self-distrust is indeed an enemy of life or one’s success. Why not begin to trust yourself today?

2.     2. Loss of hope or despair: Hope is a great friend of life and while despair is dangerous enemy of life. Hope gives life into your life. It energizes you. It is a great motivator. Hope helps you to focus more on the rewards that you will gain. Your focus is on the opportunities and not on the obstacles or difficulties. Hope makes you to see the strength in you and pushes you to put in the best that you give into your work or what you should be doing.

But despair on the other hand, limits you. It hammered a heavy blow on your strength and hampered your progress. Despair makes you to focus on obstacles, challenges, setbacks, limitations our attention is always drawn to the pains. Despair is a thief. It stole your joy and happiness and you no longer find it comfortable putting joy into your works. It prevent you from seeing that you more than you know.  

3.     3. Disinclination to work or exertion with indisposition to action: What is work? Work means proceed towards a goal or along a path or through an activity. It is to exert oneself by doing mental or physical work for a purpose or out of necessity. It is an activity directed toward making or doing something. It is an exertion of strength or faculties; physical or intellectual effort directed to an end; industrial activity; toil; employment; physical labor, the thing occupying one; business, duty.

Form the meaning of the word work given above, it is believed that work is an essential part of surviving. Without work, you cannot achieve anything. But vice, called disinclination to work makes an individual not to be interested in work in spite the importance or benefits of work. Disinclination to work blind you from seeing properly that you are capable and more able than you know or think.

Action is the state of being active. It means an act; a thing done; a deed; an enterprise. It is the trait of being active and energetic and forceful. It is something done (usually as opposed to something said). To be active and energetic and forceful is very essential quality to success. You cannot achieve anything without being active and energetic, and forceful.

It is the process of taking actions that bring us closer to our dreams. Indisposition to action discourages you from taking steps to get things done. It weakens your energy and activeness and forcefulness to work. Your indisposition to action is one issue why you do not know that you are stronger than you know or think.

4.     4. Procrastination: Procrastination is the act or habit of procrastinating, or putting off to a future time; delay; dilatoriness. It is the slowness as result of not getting around to it. What you are capable of doing now or today, procrastination causes you to shift it to another time or day. And so it goes. It weakens your mind from taken proper and worthy decisions on what should be done.  

Procrastination prevent you from seeing or knowing the strength you have and gives you wrong image or poor image of yourself. It makes you to think that you are weak and not ready. Procrastination is another enemy of progress.

5.     5. The habit of not paying proper and close attention to a task or work: Most often, some people while doing their work, they love giving divided attention to their work. This often make them not to do the work properly or do the work rather unwell or rather poor. Their mind is not stable and focus on what they are doing.

Divided attention towards your work is one of the reason some people cannot perform to their utmost best. It prevent you from putting or giving in the best into your work. The habit of not paying proper and close attention to your work is seriously blindfolding you from knowing that you are better than you know or think.

6.     6. The culture of ignoring and forgetting your responsibilities: Most people are forming the habit or culture of ignoring their works or responsibility. Some people tend to give reasons why they ignore their responsibilities but the truth is that no reason is good enough. It is the accepting of your responsibilities that matters very much, or count a lot.

When you have form the habit or the culture of ignoring and forgetting your work, you will become weak to tackle them later. And the work never get done or executed. This habit limits your progress or success. You cannot achieve much with this type of culture. This habit prevents you from seeing that you are stronger than you think or know.

7.     7. When you take pleasure going round your problems: There two choices before each of us. You either choose to go through your problems or you choose to go round the problems. Going through your problems is positive while going round your problems is negative. Go through as a concept means to execute, accomplish, finish, bear, endure, undergo, and suffer.

Go around as a concept means to avoid something unpleasant or laborious. When you looked at the two concept above, you can see that to go through a problem gives you the opportunity to try and fail and try and fail until you succeed in getting the work done. It strengthens your strength and helps you to finish or complete the work at hand.

But the attitude of going around problems makes you to become weaker in doing the things you need to be doing. Going around your problems weakens your mind as well and prevent you from seeing that you are stronger and better than you know or think.

8.     8. Acceptance of man-made impossibilities: There are some impossibilities that are real. While some others are man-made impossibilities. These impossibilities are not real but fake or false. But because we have accepted these false impossibilities, they become real impossibilities. Only few things are impossible to diligence and skills.

This means that you can do or achieve whatsoever thing you want to achieve if you set your mind to it. But the failure to separate the real from the fake is the bane of the individual.  Man-made impossibilities are things which can be done but an individual can take it or them as impossibilities and then withdraw back from doing them.

The acceptance of man-made impossibilities has blind most people from seeing that they are stronger than they think.

9.     9. Refusing to give the best effort into your works: In most cases, people tend to give the worst effort into what they are doing. They deliberately refuse to give in their best effort into their works. It is not because they are weak but because they intentionally do not want to bring in the best effort. People tend to make this mistake of keeping their best effort for something less important. And use their small effort for the things that count or counts.

It is what you give you get. The refusal to give in the best effort weakens your strength and your mind. People who do not want to give in their best into their works believed that they must not use their best effort to get what they want. And so they keep doing their things the way it pleases them without knowing that success requires your best efforts to make your dreams come true.

Refusal to give the best effort into your work will prevent you from seeing that you are stronger than you think or know.

10. 10. Thinking in terms of how little can I give to gain the object in view: Another factor that contribute to why people cannot see that they are stronger or better than they think or know is the problem of thinking in terms of how little can I give to gain the object in view. Most people instead of thinking in a positive direction they prefer to think in the negative direction.

You want to achieve something but you are not ready to do the actual actions that are required or needed to ensure that you achieve your intentions. Rather than thinking in terms of how much can you give to gain the object in view, you take pleasure in thinking of how little can you give to gain the object in view. Things do not just work like that.

The world is governed by its ideals. So also is the individual persons and the dreams you want to achieve. To gain the object in view, you need to give much. To give little is to prevent yourself from gaining it.

11. 11. Lack of perseverance determination in enterprise:  One vital ingredient of success is the perseverance determination in enterprise. You cannot succeed when you lack this quality. If you have the interest or the passion for something, if there is no perseverance determination, it is very likely you will never gain the treasure.

When your determination to succeed is not strong enough, you will not be able to reach your target. One strong reason why people are given up on their dreams is the problem of lack of perseverance determination. The lack of this quality is making people to think that they are not strong enough and thus prevent you from seeing that you are stronger than you know or think.

12. 12. Unsteadiness of mind: When your mind is everywhere, you will not be able to concentrate on your works or duties. And because of this, you end up giving divided attention to what you are supposed to do.  When you lack stability of mind, you will find it hard to take the right decision. The wrong choices of people is because of their unsteadiness of mind.

Some people often think that they are not good or strong enough because of unsteadiness of their minds. Your unsteadiness of mind will blindfold you from seeing that you are good or strong enough or stronger than you think or know.

13. 13. Self-deception: Self-deception is another major factor why people are doubting their abilities. Some people tend to accept or hold unto something which is believe to be false as true. They dwell their mind on this thing and it become real to them. They then spend much of their time chasing this deception. Self-deception has caused more harm than good.

Many people unknowingly to them were chasing and are still chasing their deceptions but think it is their dreams. Because they cannot analysed their deceptions. Each and every time your self-deception rules you, you will not be able to see that you are stronger than you think or know.

14. 14. Evasion or escape or dodge: Evasion or escape is the nonperformance of something that is your work or duty or responsibility or task that is distasteful or unpleasant that you are supposed to do. Here, sometimes, you can be doing other of your works but when the work is a distasteful one, you evade it or escape from doing it or you just dodge or avoid it. Thinking is okay whereas it is not okay.

The more you are running away or avoiding certain duties or works simply because the work is unpleasant one or distasteful one; the more you will become weaken in your strength and blind to know that you are stronger than you think or know or the less you see that you are stronger than you know.            

15. 15. Chasing your corrupt desires: Even when people know their dreams, they tend to find it hard to go after their dreams. And the reason for this their interest in chasing after their corrupt passions or desires. The more you go after your corrupt passions or desires, the less time you have to go after your dreams.

Most times, people find it difficult to separate their corrupt desires from their dreams. In short, their corrupt desires become their dreams and that is why most people end up npt being able to attain their cherished purposes. The inability to chase after your dreams due to the influence of your corrupt desires is making you not to see that you are stronger than you know or think.

16. 16. Giving up on hope and yourself and your dreams: As people try to achieve their dreams and they find it hard to achieve, the best option available to them is to quit their dreams. When they think they can no longer pursue their dreams they give up on hope. The loss of hope on one’s dreams is making people to give in to undue sadness which further brings frustrations and distress and dismay and depression just to mention but this.

To succeed at what you do, perseverance is the key. If you cannot persist longer, you may just have to forget about your dreams. The more people give up on their dreams and on hope and in themselves, the less they see that they are stronger than they know.

Anytime you are doubting your strength, no that one of the above factors or reasons is the causal factor. When you cannot see that you are stronger than you know or think, you are actually doubting yourself. You cannot succeed much when you are doubting yourself. Be yourself and belief in yourself. You are the key to what you are looking for.