When Fear Dominates You, 10 Things that Will Repeat Itself in Your Life

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 When Fear Dominates You, 10 Things that Will Repeat Itself in Your Life 

Fear is to be uneasy or apprehensive about something. It is to be afraid or feel anxious or apprehensive about a possible or probable situation or event. It is an anxious feeling. It is the lack of courage; ignobly timid, and faint-hearted. It is that which causes, or which is the object of, apprehension or alarm. Fear is to suspect; to doubt. It is to be afraid, alarmed, or frightened, have apprehensions, live in terror, and stand aghast. It is to be afraid or scared of something; be frightened of something. It is an emotion experienced in anticipation of some specific pain or danger usually accompanied by a desire to flee or fight. When fear dominates you, there are things that would be reoccurring on a repeated basis in your life. These are capable of hampering our progress. Here are twenty-two things that would be repeating themselves continual in your life until you do some about your fear:

1.    1. You will end up distrusting yourself: From the meanings of fear giving above, one of the meaning is fear means to doubt. When fear is dominating your life, you will definitely doubt yourself. You will lose your self-confidence. This will result in you not being able to make good decisions about yourself. Most of the times, even when you make a decision, you will not be able to effect the decision you have made. Your fear will suppress you from effecting the best. And you end up doing the things you ought not to do. Until you dominate your fear, your fear will make you to distrust yourself.

2.     2. You will be desisting instead of persisting: Desisting and persisting are two opposing terms. Desisting is governed by fear while persisting is governed by faith. When you are governed by faith, you will be doing the things you should be doing no matter how difficult or distasteful they may be. You will always stand by the work assigned to you. You will love going through the problems. Your duties or works or responsibilities will be your utmost concern. You will keep persisting to attain your goals.

But when fear is ruling you, you will not be able to do things that you are supposed to do. You will give series of excuses why you are unable to do what you are supposed to do. You will always be desisting from the actions you are to take, or supposed to take. When you are unable to consider things carefully as a result of negative thinking fear pulls you backward from chasing your dreams.

You will always lack the power or the willingness to carry out the activities intended to accomplish your cherished purposes. Your concern tend to change drastically from the necessary to the unnecessary things.

3.     3. It weakens your mind you become unable to act on your decisions: Fear always affect the mind negatively. Your mind become weak and soft. You are no longer in charge of your mind. Your mind tend to be unstable and wavering. Your mind is the seat of knowledge and intellectual ability. It is that which is responsible for one’s thoughts and feelings; the seat of the faculty of reason. It is also your intention; what you intend to do.

Looking at the meaning of the word mind, you will see that the mind can be polluted by fear. When fear dominate your mind, it weakens your thought and feelings about situations around you. Your intention or what you intend to do if positive, fear will make you to change your mind and do something else. So, fear is capable of turn our intentions from good to bad or positive to negative.

When your mind is weak or unstable, it become too difficult to stiffen your mind and heart to carryout things that required great hardiness of heart. Most often, people stop doing what they initially intended to do because of fear. And by so doing you will not be able to act on your decisions.

4.     4. You will not be able to put in your best into your work: Fear is one demon in people that tend to limit people from doing their best in their works. Most often, people do not like to put in their best into their work because fear has over powered them. People fear failure and so do not want to put in their best into what they are doing that is their works. People also fear success that is why they often think in term of just how little I can give to gain the object in view. They are not interested in giving in the best. Until you learn to give in the best into your works, you will never get the best out of your works.

5.     5. You are frequently distracted from your works: Fear is a distractor. It distract people it dominates. When fear dominates a person, that person becomes distracted from the first thing he or she is to focus his or her mind. Fear can compound people’s problems by making them to be discourage from facing the risk and paying the price. When you are distracted, you will lose focus and consecration and concentration. Your attention to your works will no longer be there.

Most often, people give divided attention to their works due to the demon called fear. They fear pains but no pain, no gain. When fear distracts you, it will increases your fear of pains, fear of failure, fear of success, fear of the future and fear of change. When you are distracted, you will not be able to, or lack the capacity to challenge the problems that confront you. Instead of confronting your problems, your fear will shift your mind elsewhere.

6.     6. It pushes you to set wrong priorities: On daily basis, people set their priorities either right or wrong. For better or for worst. Fear is capable of altering people’s priorities and make them to change their first thing to become the last thing. Sometimes, the priorities of people are set based on the manipulation of fear. Some people beliefs are based on fear.

When you are always dominated by fear, you priorities will be misplaced. And by this mistake, the less important things become the best things. When your priorities are wrong, you will always get involved in self-defeating activities.  Self-defeating activities are activities which are contrary to the achievement of your dreams or cherished desires or purposes.

7.     7. You will often submit to man-made impossibilities: Man-made impossibilities are fake or false. They are not really impossibilities. The truth here is that only few things are impossible to skill and diligence. People create false or fake impossibilities due to defective or faulty imaginations and by their soft or weak or poor attitude they accept and render those fake or false impossibilities as real impossibilities to them that accept those false impossibilities the first place.

Fear makes people to create false impossibilities and thus, increases the number of actual or real impossibilities in their lives. These false impossibilities make those who accept them lose heart or lose hope and thereby give in to discouragement. These fake impossibilities prevent people from doing what they are capable of doing and make them to give up on their dreams.

8.     8. You will always find it difficult to take a step or an action: One reason why people find it hard to take a step to do the things they should do is fear. When fear dominates you, you will find it difficult to take a step or an action. Instead you will be disinterested in works or indisposed to actions. You will often ignore your works or duties.

Taking a step is the quality of faith. You will to evade certain actions due to their distastefulness. The inability to take a step or actions will always lead you to procrastinate or delay taking the needful actions. When fear over power you, your excuses become acceptable norms. You become incapacitated to fight your resistances.

9.     9. You will detest hard work: Hard work pays. Most people do not like any work that is somehow difficult. Fear makes people to think that hard work is not necessary and is not too important. Some people are of the view that smart work is better needed than hard work. But little do they know that smart work is a function of hard work.

You cannot do smart work without being hard working. Being smart is never a characteristic of laziness. When you are always dominated by fear, you will detest hard work or working hard. Fear makes people to doubt their ability or capability that is why they detest working hard or hard work.

10. 10. The time for the work will not be used to finish the work: You are either doing the work or not doing the work. There are things that make you happy yet they are less important. People choose to spend or waste their time on less important things or they spend their time on chasing their dreams. Fear cause people to waste their time chasing the less important things and have no time left to go after the more important things.

Fear compound people sorrow by making them to abandon their beneficial works. The time for the work will not be used for doing the work, it is used for doing something else due to fear. And that is why most people are busy doing every other things but the work they are supposed to do.                                                                     

Do not allowed the demon called fear to influence and dominates you. If it succeed, the above ten things are the things that will be repeating themselves in your life.