Most People are Running Away From These 5 Things Which Prevent Them Getting the Throne

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 Most People are Running Away From These 5 Things Which Prevent Them Getting the Throne

As much as man want to achieve something, there are many things man is avoiding or running away from which prevent him from reaching or getting the throne unknowingly to him. Below are the things man is always running away from which prevent him from getting the throne:

1.     1.  Failure: Failure is the process of doing and doing and doing without getting tired of doing until your dreams come true. Everyone is craving for success. No one wants to fail that is why they feared failure. Because of the fear of failure, people have stop chasing their dreams. They are no longer interested in chasing their dreams. They are tired of chasing their dreams due to the fear of failure. The fear of failure limit you from attempting, trying, taking a step and daring. It makes you to indulge in non-essential or less important or unnecessary things.

The fear of failure is also a distraction. When you are afraid of failure, you will begin to aim lower than expected. You will lose focus of the main thing you should be focusing. Running away from failure will never solve the problem. But instead your problems become compounded. The fear of failure makes it difficult for people to keep the main thing, the main thing. The result of running away from failure or fearing failure has led people into aiming lower. The more you run away from or fear failure, the lower your aim will be.

Most people do not know that they only fail because they stop trying. You get or gain what you aim. The lower you aim, the farther the throne. Until you learn from failure, you will never gain the throne.

The following are insights on failure: (I). Failure is a learning tool. (II). Failure is a postpone success. (III). Failure is more of a journey than a destination. (IV). Failure is the higher path or road to success. (V). Failure is not a destiny (VI). Failure is pains and success is gains, no pain, no gain.  

2.      2. Success: Do you know that people fear success just the way they fear failure? Yes of course they do. The fear of success is harming or limiting most people in doing the needful. Why are people always afraid of success? People are afraid of success because they do not want to try the more. People fear success because they think that success involves working hard or toiling or struggling or extending yourself or inconveniencing oneself or be at pains or take pains. But success wants you to try even the more or even harder.

The fear of success has led people to place their pleasure first before their duty. Most people get involved in doing the lesser things or the small things because of the fear of success. People generally will argue that they are not afraid of success but unknowingly to them by their actions they do justice to that. It is because many people are running away from success or are afraid of success that is why they love groping the low way or path. They love following the least resistance path because they are comfortable with their comfort zones.

The more you fail to follow you dreams, the more you travel along the path of least resistance. Like failure, people who fear success also aim lower than expected. The more you are running from success, the less you get to the throne or the farther the throne becomes. One single reason most people get involved in less important things is because they are always afraid of success.

3.      3. Loneliness: Most people do not like the way they are; may be because of their conditions or state. Most people fear being alone, so they crave for friendship. They want to be identify. This is good but there are several things you can gain while being alone that you will or may never gain while being in a group. People fear being alone because they do not like or love themselves. In the process of not wanting to be alone, they ran into making friends even with the wrong or negative people.

Wrong circle of friends have huge negative effects on your dreams. They are always capable of influencing you negatively which can or may limits you from getting the throne. The more wrong circle of friends you have, the more the throne get farther from you. Being alone is better than having wrong circles of friendship.

Being alone can help you to do the following:                                                                                       

 (I). Learn and know more about yourself.                                                         

(II). Do self-analysis.                                                                                                                                   

(III). Meditate and discern properly.                                                                                                                       

(IV). Learn to like or love yourself.                                                                                                             

(V). It helps you to communicate with yourself.                                                                                        

(VI). It improve your mind power.                                                                                                               

(VII). Think deeply.

As much as people do not want loneliness or they are afraid of it, being alone has a lot to offer you if you can take advantage of it. It helps you more in getting to the throne than to be in the midst of wrong cliques or associations or friends. If you must follow the right path alone do so, it is not a crime.

4.      4. Rejection: In relationship and friendship, we are in need of acceptance. We crave for it. Although, acceptance is one basic need of man but we can sometime do without it. Most people are afraid of rejection, so they struggle to please others just to be accepted. Most people often make the mistake of always trying to please people for them to be accepted by those they are trying to please. Trying to please people can cause more unnecessary pains than usual or expected. It can even make you to become poor than you think.

When the prodigal son was busy pleasing his fake friends and other people around him without care, what happen to him later? Let your mind runs wide. You do not need people acceptance before you can choose who you want to be. You are who you choose to be. Some people may accept you but they cannot help you to get to the throne. Rejection can bring about low self-esteem, unhappiness, self-pity and self-doubt, frustration, disturb your peace of mind, worry, dismay, inferiority complex, etc. if not well manage.

If and when you believe in yourself, you do not need other people acceptance or approval before you can choose who you want to be, do the things should do or be doing, follow your dreams, think well of yourself, jump your hurdles, pay the price or face the risk, accept your responsibilities, stand by your work, pay proper attention to your task…etc. people fear rejection for many unexplained reasons but my concern is why you should not fear rejection.

Rejection helps you to do self –analysis, self-discovery, it helps you to work on your short comings and limitations, makes you not to depend totally on people, you learn to accept yourself the way you are, and you learn to improve on yourself all round.

The following things can help you not to give in to fear of rejection: learn to love yourself; always tell yourself you are good or strong enough even when you are not perfect; when you are the miracle you need to see; when you are doing the right things; self-acceptance; when you are govern by higher ideals; when you trust yourself into winning and excellence; being hard working and the likes. 

5.      5. Pain: Another critical thing or factor people tend to run away from is pain. Pain is an emotional distress; a fundamental feeling that people try to avoid. It is a source of unhappiness. It is something that annoying that people tries to avoid. People fear pain so they prefer to do only the things that make them happy and comfortable. People avoid pain because they dislike distasteful works, depressing duty, difficult problems, jumping their hurdles, going through their problems. They cannot bear the pain so they prefer groping the low way and following the least resistance path instead of climbing the high way and following the high resistance path.

People fear pain that is why they cannot go to the end of their strength before complaining, they ignore and forget their responsibilities and neglect their duties. People fear pain, but without pain, there is no gain. Pain is a necessity for growth. Let’s ponder on these success principles on pains: no pain, no gain; no work, no food; duty first, pleasure thereafter; nothing venture, nothing gain; go to the end of your strength before you complain; no cross, no crown; no good Friday, no Easter Sunday; God cannot save you without you; God count on you.

People fear pain but the concern here is why you should not fear pain. Some reasons not to fear pain include: pain is necessary for growth; it is a necessary evil; no pain, no gain; learning is pain; success is pain; postpone gratification in favor of the long-term profit is pain; thinking is pain; no work, no food. Pain is that which must be borne to achieve your goals. Pain here refer to all the actions you must do and should do or be doing to get to the throne. Soft men do not win their wars. Take note.                              

A critical look at the above issue actually reveal that people do not get to the throne due to their own making, and negligence.