If You Must Walk Your Path Alone for a While, Here Are 10 Reasons Why You Should Do It

 

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If You Must Walk Your Path Alone for a While, Here Are 10 Reasons Why You Should Do It

The road to success is always empty of people because most people love groping the low way, or the least resistance path. They dislike the highway or the high resistance path. The easy way is the best way for most of the people and so they ignore the hard way. Because of the dislike for the highway or the hard way, most people are not found on the road to success. That is why the road is always empty. Here are reasons why if you must walk your path alone for a while do it:

1.     1. You may be distracted: The truth is you may be distracted by friends or other people around you who may not have anywhere to go. If you have somewhere to go, it is better you go alone than to follow people who have nowhere to really go to. If you are determine to succeed, some other people may not be so determine as you. Your friends and other people around may be more interested in less important things which you may not be so interested in like them. In another way, your friends or other persons around may value more their pleasure than their duties or works. To be on the safer side it is better to walk alone for a while if you can do it, do it.

2.     2. Your friends can discourage you or make you to change your mind: The group of friends or people around you matter much. Your friends may discourage you from making attempt at what you want to achieve based on reasons best known to them. It may because they have already discouraged themselves before now or they are comfortable with their comfort zones. For people who have already discourage themselves already or who are comfortable with their comfort zone, if you cannot beat them to change their mind, what will you do? I think the best thing to do is to leave them and go your own way, instead of wanting to join them.

3.     3. Some people may not believe in your dreams: The dreams you have may not be accepted by some people. Your dreams may not make any sense to them. They do not or may not believe that you can achieve your dreams. If you have a dream and other people do not believe in your dreams, what are you supposed to do? You are to ignore them and go after your dream. When you catch your dream that is when they start believing in you. If other people do not believed in *your dream, leave them quietly and walk your way alone.     

4.     4. Nobody will fight your battle or wars for you: Everyone have is battles or wars waiting for him or her to fight. Nobody will have the time on earth to fight your battles for you. Just imagine you having more than one battles just like every other persons, when do you think they will have enough time to come and help you to fight your battles. No one have the time. The ball is in your court to play it the way you want. If you do not play it, whom will you blame? Since you must fight your battles alone, walk your path alone. It is not a crime to do so.

5.     5. Some people may not like what you intend doing: Many people of great will may love doing every other things except what they are expected to do or should do. While you are more concerned with doing what you should do. So what they love is quite different from what you love. If what they love is different from what you love, they may influence you not to do the things you should do or be doing. For you to succeed in doing the things you should be doing, you need to travel or walk your path alone.

6.     6. People around you may create false impossibilities: People around you can create false impossibilities around what they are supposed to do and they will accept those impossibilities as such. And they become real impossibilities. When false impossibilities are taken to be real impossibilities, the said activities or actions are ignored and dodged by the people who create those false impossibilities around those actions. When you know that certain actions or activities are possible while people around you are taken them otherwise, the best thing to do is move away from them and go doing your things the best way that you can.

7.     7. Some people may be suffering from unstableness of mind or instability of mind: One main problem of most people is the problem of instability of mind. Most people minds are not stable, their minds are everywhere. Because their minds are everywhere, they cannot think adequately and properly. And the tendency to make wrong decisions are very high. You cannot achieve your cherished dreams with people whose minds are everywhere. To save yourself from this kind of mess, learn to walk your path alone for a while. You can do it. Do it.

8.     8. Some people uphold a lesser ideals: Ideals of people can be high or low. These ideals govern the people who uphold them. The lesser ideals does not and cannot uplift the people. It is only the high ideals that can uplift the people. So the type of ideals people around you uphold matter very much. If you notice that people around you are upholding a lesser ideals and you detest them, what you should do in this case is to avoid them and do your things based on your high ideals. Success is based on high ideals and not on low ideals. Those who uphold the low or lesser ideals will always distract you. They cannot help themselves and neither can they help you to grow. So if you avoid them is not a crime.

9.     9. Some people around you may not like to give in the best into their works: One success anthem is to give in the best into your work. There is no option here. It is the best that is demanded from you based on the anthem. If people around you are not interested in giving in their best in what they are doing and you are crazy about giving your own best into your work, quit from among them. For if you do not quit from among them, you will not be able to reach your target. By the act of not willing to give in one’s best into one’s work shows that the person is not yet ready to win and if you are ready to win, what are you still waiting for. Leave them.

10. 10. People around you may be always influenced by flimsy excuses: Some people are easily influenced by flimsy excuses. They cannot resist their excuses. Most people who cannot achieve their dreams is because they are ruled by their excuses or resistances. Examples of flimsy excuses are, can you do it, is it possible for you to achieve it, I am tired, I need a good rest, can’t you do it later, do you think you can finish it, are you strong enough to do it, etc. Resistances have prevented many people from achieving their dreams. If that is the case, the people around you with flimsy excuses why they cannot or were not able to do this or that, are also distractions on your way to achieving any meaningful thing. If you want your dreams to come truth, avoid them. Learn to walk you path alone.     

If you think you can, nothing can stop you. Walk your path alone you need it.