If You Must Catch Your Cherished Desires, Change These 19 Poor Areas of Your Life Part 1

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 If You Must Catch Your Cherished Desires, Change These 19 Poor Areas of Your Life Part 1

 

To catch one’s dreams take a lot of effort to do so but on the other hand certain factors contribute in making it harder to do so. All the factors are self-imposed factors. You can do well to change them if you must catch your cherished desires. Below are the poor areas of you or your life that need to be changed to catch your cherished desire easily: 

1.     1. Fake lifestyle: one area of you that need change is your fake life that you are living just to please other people. Faking your life is to pretend to be somebody else. Most often, people form to belong to a class higher than themselves financially to create false impression or image about themselves in order please or impress other significant people around or close-by. This happen more in relationship or dating relationship with the intention to deceive the other person as well. Why faking your lifestyle is negative? Because it cost you more than usual. You tend to spend more than you earned.

Fake lifestyle is in conflict with this success principle. ‘Do not spend it (money or income) before you have earned it’. Both men and women are guilty of this. The act of faking your lifestyle prevent you from being yourself and seeing yourself from positive light and telling yourself the truth of who you are. Within the period of faking your life, your expenses are often on the higher side.

Most times, money that should be for investment are wasted just to please others. It is better to be yourself. It cost less. You can only fake your life for a short period. If you must catch your cherished desires, stop faking your life just to impress people. You can never catch your dreams if you want to be impressing or pleasing people.

2.     2. Weak or poor mind:  Mind is the intellectual or rational faculty in man; the understanding; the intellect; the power that conceives, judges, or reasons. It is the state, at any given time, of the faculties of thinking, willing, choosing, and the like; psychical activity; as: opinion; judgement; belief. It is choice; inclination; liking; intent; will. It is courage; spirit.

From the meaning of the word mind above, the mind can be weak or strong, negative or positive. If your mind is positive, you will create, judge or reason positively. Your thinking will be positive. This will affect your choosing, opinion, judgement, belief, choice, inclination, liking, intent and will positively. You have courage to do what you should do or be doing.

But when your mind is negative, it will affect your choosing, opinion, judgement, belief, choice, inclination, liking, intent, and will negatively. You will have no courage to do what you should do or be doing. When your mind is poor, you create and accept wrong opinion, judgement, belief, choice, inclination, liking, intent, and your will. Your poor mind affects your actions negatively while your healthy mind affects your actions positively. If you must catch your cherished desires, change your poor or weak mind to strong and healthy mind.

3.     3. Following the low way or the least resistance path: The low way or the least resistance path is the path with less challenges, simple tasks, more short-term pleasure, excuses, complaining, inactivity, no hurdles to jump, no battle to fight, no war to win, no race to run and finish and no crying of your tears, less or lesser pains just to mention but these. When you seek out to do what is difficult and what challenges you, you will not find it along this path. This path leads to nowhere.

People who want to go somewhere do not follow the low way or the least resistance path. They travel along the high way or the higher resistance path. This the path toughminded people often follow. It is the way of their dreams. Your dreams are on the high way but your less important things are on the low way. The high way is filled with obstacles, or hurdles, problems, challenges, battles, storms (difficult works or depressing or distasteful duties), that you must conquer before you can catch your cherished desires. The truth is that if you must catch your cherished desires, you must follow the high way or the high resistance path. This path is really the way.

4.    4. Poor, weak, soft, wrong, unhealthy and negative attitude: It by our attitude we accept or reject false impossibilities. When you have a poor attitude to life, your actions tend to be on the negative side. Your soft attitude, pulls you back from doing those things you should be doing. You become interested in declination to duty, disposition to avoid certain things, ignoring and forgetting you responsibilities and negligence become the norms in your life.

Your weak attitude encourages laziness. If you are lazy you will not succeed. But having a strong attitude helps you to reject false impossibilities and you focus more on opportunities to gain. Your positive attitude makes you to be interested in inclination to work, disposition to action, performance of duties and diligence become the practice in your life.

Strong attitude encourages hard working. Working hard makes you a leader. To catch your dreams, you must adopt or choose the strong and positive attitude. It helps you to do the things that you should be doing.

5.     5. Weak or Soft rules or laws of conducts:  We are guided by principles or rules of conduct. If our principle are weak ones, they weaken or soften your positive conduct. The actions that we love to display or do are based on our principles or laws of conducts. When you are guided by weak principles your actions tend to be like the principles. That is your actions are based on the principles. Your poor rules of conduct discourages you from doing certain things or the things you should be doing.

You end up doing different things you ought not to do or be doing. Your principles define your action for better or for worse. You are guide by your principles on what to do and what not to do. If you must catch your cherished desires, you must adopt or practice the strong principles or laws of conduct.

6.     6. Lesser ideals: The world is govern by its ideals. This is also true with the individual. You are govern by your ideals. Your ideals can either be low or high. The low ideals are standards some people adopt and aimed at. They affect people actions as such. The high ideals are standards some other people adopt and practice. Only the high ideals improve people and uplift them. So, if you must catch your cherished desires, you must uphold or adopt and aimed at high ideals.

7.    7.  Negative words: The power of or in our tongue is our words. The way you used it count much. If you used it negatively, it will affect you or your action negatively. Your actions follow your words. Your words also define your actions. The nature of your words determine the actions you get involved in. your words are strong enough to block you from achieving cherished desires if they are always negative. If your words are negative, you cannot perform above or more than your negative words. They draw you back. They prevent you from taking actions or steps. In short, your negative words are distractions on your way to catch your cherished desires.  If you must catch your dreams, you must learn to speak or talk positively.

8.     8. Chasing illusions: Illusion is anything agreeably fascinating and charming; enchantment; glamour. It is something many people believe that is false. It is an unreal image presented to the bodily or mental vision; a deceptive appearance; a false show; mockery; hallucination. Illusion is something that is unreal or untrue. It is not genuine. It is fake but accepted to be real or true or genuine. And then pursue by the individual. The individual accept it to be real and then go after those illusions.

When something is unreal or untrue but you take it to be the major or the main thing, you will often waste or spend your time chasing after your illusions. Since, illusions are unreal or untrue, chasing after it leads to poverty. If you must catch your cherished desires, stop chasing your illusions and go after your dreams that which is achievable.  Your dreams are real. Follow them. They know the path.  

9.     9. Corrupt desires: In most of the cases or times, most people do not get to catch their dreams because they are busy chasing their corrupt desires or passions. And have no time left to chase their cherished desires. They cannot filter their corrupt desires from their cherished desires. All they assume is that their corrupt desires are the same with their cherished desires. They lack the ability to separate the good desires from the corrupt desires. All of them are desires.

So they pursue their corrupt desires more than their cherished purposes. For some people not thing is as compare to their corrupt desires or passions. Because of misplacement of priority, corrupt desires now dominate the genuine ones or the cherished desires. To be able to catch your cherished desires, you must have the capacity to separate the genuine desires from the corrupt ones. And go after the real desires.

10. 10. Self-defeating activities: Self-defeating activities are whose benefits does not measure up with your cherished desires. They cannot uplift you. What you may be gaining from these activities are momentary or urgent pleasures or short-term gains. Indulging in self-defeating activities show the fear, poor mentality, and doubt you have about yourself. When you are doing things which do not correspond to your dreams those things you are doing becomes self-defeating activities or actions.

On daily basis, most people are often influence by self-defeating activities. People waste their golden time on these activities or actions. That is why people are on the wrong path. They are busy doing the activities or things that cannot bring out their dreams. The truth here is that self-defeating activities or actions or behaviors cannot help you to get your dreams. Instead of indulging in self-defeating, you need to indulge in self sustained activities. 

That is the activities that you should be doing. If you must catch your cherished desires, engage yourself in doing the things that you should be doing and not the things that you love. Some things that people love are negative or corrupt or self-defeating.