7 Reasons It Is Better To Stay Alone Rather Than Keeping Company Of People Who Do Not Value You

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7 Reasons It Is Better To Stay Alone Rather Than Keeping Company Of People Who Do Not Value You

Having or making friends is good but there are situations in life that would warrant staying alone than to keep company of people who do not value or respect you. Sometimes, your so called friends may even be your stumbling blocks to your success. They may not believe in you and your dreams. They may look down on you and in what you want to achieve. This happen because they also do not believed in themselves and in what they cherished to achieve. Instead of keeping company of these type of persons, is it not better to stay your path alone? Here are some good reasons you should better stay alone than to keep company of people who do not value you:

1.     1. Some persons are very toxic: The word toxic is of or relating to or caused by a toxin or poison. It is an alternative of toxical. Toxical refers to of or pertaining to poison; poisonous; as, toxic medicine. The term poison means anything that harms or destroys. It is that which taints or destroys moral purity or health; as, the poison of evil example; the poison of sin. It is to taint; to corrupt; to vitiate; as vice poisons happiness; slander poisoned his mind. Poison means infect, taint, contaminate, corrupt, canker, mar, impair, vitiate, envenom, pollute.

From the various meanings of the word toxic or poison, it can be deduced that toxic people are harmful in the sense that they limit your progress both physical and spiritual. Toxic people can corrupt your mind or affect you negatively or impair you. These they achieve through their words or actions. Toxic people cannot help you to achieve your cherished purposes. It can also be deduced that toxic people are wicked and self-centered. The major concern of toxic people is just themselves and nothing more. They are not interested in your happiness.

2.     2. Some people would not allow you to grow: When you value other people, you will be interested in their growth. People who value you will be interested in your growth or progress. To grow means to increase in any way; to become larger or greater and stronger; to be augmented; to advance; to extend; to wax; to accrue. It is to spring up and come to maturity in a natural way; to thrive; to flourish. The word grow is positive but negative people would not allow you to grow. They would not want you to advance or thrive or flourish.

They would not want you to become larger or greater and stronger than them. So they will always look for ways to bring you down and down. There are many people out there who do not mean well for you or have your back. Instead of keeping company of such people who would not want you to grow, is not better for you to stay alone on your lane? To grow is a must. Stay on your course if you can. It is better to stay on your course and grow alone than to be in the midst or company of people who do not value you.

3.     3. When you are in pain most of the people who do not value you will avoid you or run away: The pain here is more physical than psychological and it is both. It means problems or difficulties or challenges that people face on daily occasions. There are many people out there who would not want to share your pains, they are only interested in your pleasure and enjoyment. So when you are in pains they will hide from you. They gain from you but you cannot gain from them. The prodigal son for instance, when he was in pleasure, a lot of fake people were around him but when he began to experienced pains; his so called friends avoided him or ran away from him to face his pains alone. Is it not wise and better to sometimes stay alone than to be in the company of people who do not value you the much?

4.     4. Some people think you cannot make it and do without them: It is true that people who think that you cannot make it and do without them are actually doubting your abilities or capabilities   or capacities and boldness to achieve somethings in your life. They do not believe you can do and achieve any meaningful thing without them. People who think you cannot make it and do without them, do not believe in your dreams and what you can do to achieve them. Instead of being in the association or company of people who do not value you or think you cannot make it and do without them, don’t you think, it is better and decent and nice to stay alone on your path or course?

5.     5. Some people look down and talk down on or at you as nothing: Those who look down on you are seeing themselves as “God” and you as nothing.  By seeing themselves as “God”, they directly look down on you. To look down on somebody means to regard him or her with contempt. Contempt is the state of being despised; disgrace; shame. Look down on is also the opposite of respect. It also means disrespect. Respect is a courteous regard for people’s feelings. It is a courteous expression (by word or deed) of esteem or regard. It is the condition of being honored (esteemed or respected or well regarded). It the value you place on people or you have towards other people.  

To look down on people is synonymous with to talk down on or at people. To talk down means to belittle through talk. It is to speak in a condescending manner, as if to a child. The meaning of to look and talk down on or at people is so irritating to the senses. It is to attack their self-pride. Everyone have his or her self-pride to protect. Rather than being in the company or midst of people who do not value you or who look down and talk down at or on you, it is better for you to stay alone.

6.     6. Some people do not love you: Sometimes, you may find yourself in the midst of people who do not really love you but you think they do, until something unpleasant reveals them. If somebody do not love you, the person would not value you. We tend to value those we love more than those we do not love. Will it be okay to keep yourself in the midst or company of other people who do not love but are pretending to do so? If you know they do not love you will you still tie yourself to them? Except if you do not know but actions speak louder than words. To keep the company of people who do not value you or who do not love you but pretend to do so, it is okay and wise to stay your path or route alone.

7.     7. If they cannot gain from you, they back out of the relationship:  Sometimes the relationship you are in is one sided. You are giving they are receiving. They are gaining you are losing. You are dying while they are living. You are pushing while they are pulling. They are only in the relationship only because of what they are gaining. They are not interested in you and their own welfare in the relationship is their sole priority. When they are gaining from you they do everything to maintain or sustain the relationship.

They are parasite in the relationship. But if there is nothing to gain from you, they keep you at distance. This type of relationship we always crash sooner or later. To be in a relationship where you are not gaining but losing and losing and losing, is it not great to be alone than to be in the company of people who care not about you or who only value you because of what they are gaining from you.

The truth is, it is better and more beneficial to you to stay alone rather than being in association of people who do not value you. For me, this is the best thing to ever happen to you, is to stay alone.