6 Ways to Make Other People Love You

 

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6 Ways to Make Other People Love You

It is not always easy to make other people to you. The journey start with you loving yourself first. If you cannot love yourself, the tendency to make others to love you is really a great task. If you find it difficult to love yourself, you will also find it extremely difficult to love others as well. To make other people to love you, you need to earn it. How do you earn it or how can you make people to love you. Below are some ways to make people to love you.

1.     1. Love them first: Show or share love with others. Be God, share God is the love philosophy of Mother Theresa of Calcutta. For the individual to share love, he or she must first of all see himself or herself as God, then he or she can now be able to comfortably share God or love with others. If you have serious difficulties or challenges in you loving others or in sharing love or God with them. Then it will be too difficult for you to make them to love you.

Loving other people begin with you loving yourself and then to make other people to love you, you must love them first. If you do not love them first how will you convince them to love you? The secret lies in you loving them first. Love can be display through your words and actions. It is not just a sweet feeling you have for them only. Making other people to love you is not magical. It is actions oriented. You must be the miracle you love to see.

2.     2. Showing kindness: Kindness is the quality of being warmhearted and considerate and humane and sympathetic. It is the state or quality of being kind, in any of its various senses; manifestation of kind feeling or disposition beneficence. It is benevolence, beneficence, benignity, humanity, generosity, charity, kindliness, sympathy, tenderness, amiability, fellow-feeling, clemency, good feeling.  

Looking at the meaning of the word kindness, if practice as it is stated, it forces people to love you beyond your imagination and expectation. It is not pretense. It is real.  For other people to love you is not accidental. It is your hard work or difficult duty or distasteful responsibilities to make them to do that or love you. Nobody will just love automatically. You must have done something about it knowingly or unknowingly. To make people to love you, you must show kindness to them.

3.     3. Respect or value other people: Respect is courteous expression by words or deed of esteem or regard. It is a courteous regard for people’s feeling. It is the condition of being honored for (esteemed or well respected or regarded. Value is to regard highly; think much of; regard. It is to esteem or regard. It is to rate highly; to have in high esteem; to hold in respect and estimation; to appreciate; to prize; as, to value one for his works or his virtues.

When you place respect and value on people, you invariably influences them to throw their love at you. It is often said, that respect is a reciprocal. What you give is what you get in return.  It is just like an investment. What you put into it is what you will gain as returns. So, to make other people love you, you must respect and value people.

4.     4. Do not be full of yourself: Pride goes before a fall. It is good to be humble. Being humble does not mean you do not like or love yourself. It means you are just struggling to see yourself the way you are supposed to be seeing yourself. Pride prevents you from seeing the beauty of others or in them. You are the only thing that matter, the center of attraction. You are always full of yourself. Nobody matters but you. This type of attitude or behavior will pull away people from you. To make other people to like or love you, you must be humble and make other people the center of attraction just like yourself. Treat people the way you will love them to treat you.

5.     5. Learn to show discreet examples: Example is the school of mankind, said Edmond Burke. People are bound to make mistakes. No one is perfect for sure. But when you want to educate those who make the mistakes, what best approach do you used or relied upon? Criticism damage people’s reputations and bring down their self-esteem. But showing discreet examples steal the show.

You are more valued and respected by others when you use discreet examples to pass your messages and grievances. By so doing you are able to maintain the self-esteem of others. And as such, you indirectly dominate and influences others to love you. The truth is that to make people to love you it is not criticism but discreet examples that does the miracle.

6.     6. Be always happy and cheerful: Being happy and cheerful is a choice. Happiness is free. You do not need to buy it at the market or store or in a supermarket. It is everywhere. When you are always cheerful and happy, you tactical have big control over others who find it too hard to make themselves happy.

There are many people in the world who have one problem or the other that is bordering them and they are looking for whom to share their problems with to get a relief in their mind. Being always happy and cheerful makes you to be admired by these people. Being happy and cheerful draws people attentions in a positive way to your side. To make other people to love you learn to always be happy and cheerful.                                                                   

 

If you are trying to make people love you from my experiences, try the above methods. It works like opium or medicine or magic.                                                                                                                              

 

Reflections on golden rules:

(I). The Golden rule: Do to others what you love them to do to you

(II).You are God share God – St. Mother Theresa of Calcutta

(III).We make others to love us – St. Augustine