11 Grounds You Should Not Let Negative People Bring You Down

 

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11 Grounds You Should Not Let Negative People Bring You Down

Negative people are not bad people per say but they are negative because of their negative mindset or mentality that they have and can be used to affect other people negatively. When your mentality is poor or weak or negative, you are a negative person. Negative people are capable of bringing you down if you give them the chance to do so. They are so powerful enough to influences other people around them negatively just the way they affect themselves negatively. Here are some grounds why you should not allow negative people pull or bring down:

1.     1. You are all you need: You are the major answer to your problems. You are the best solutions to your problems. Because no one will help you to either jump your hurdles or fight your battles or finish your race, then you can see that all you need is yourself. You are the best person to jump your hurdles and finish your race.  If you cannot do it, no one else can do it for you. You are the best when it comes to you and when it is about you. All you need is you because all you want to be is nothing but you.

2.     2. You are powerful beyond measure or you are stronger than you think: The truth is that you are powerful beyond measure or than you think. You are good or strong enough to do the things that you should do or be doing. Be it handling the most disagreeable or most depressing duty. You are good enough to go the extra-mile to get the task or work done. You are strong, capable and able to the deal with your problems. Stop looking down on yourself or belittling yourself. You can do it and you are the person to do it. Do not allow negative people or persons bring you down because, you are powerful beyond measure. Nobody can predict your power. Do not give negative people the chance to spoil your future for you because you are more powerful than they do or powerful than them.

3.     3. You are meant to shine: We are all meant to shine but we are not all shinning. Why? Because some people refuse to shine. They buried their talents. When you buried your talent or talents, you cannot shine. Some people do not shine because of dodging of certain works. When you are dodging the works you should be doing or you should do, you cannot shine. Some people do not shine because they are negligent or they neglect their duty or duties. When you neglect your duties, you cannot shine.

Some do not shine or are not shinning because of over-pampering of themselves. They are not ready to stress themselves, they want the easy life of pleasure all the way. When you put your pleasure first before your duty, you cannot shine. Despite we are all meant to shine, there many negative things that can prevent us from shinning. Negative can sell their ideals to you that make you to indulge in the above mentioned things that make most people not to shine.

4.     4. You have somewhere to go: There are basically two groups of people. The first have somewhere to go while the other have nowhere to go. Negative people have nowhere to go. Even when they have somewhere to go, they have ignorantly kill the ambitions of going somewhere. When you are not strong and you find yourself in their midst, they will also try to influence you to become discouraged of not wanting to go somewhere. This means that negative people have no dreams to chase and catch that is why they have nowhere to go. But for you, you have somewhere to go that is why you cannot give negative people the chance to rule you negatively with negativism or negativity.

5.     5. They cannot uplift you: Negative people are governed by their low ideals and weak principles. Because of this they cannot uplift themselves talk more of another person. Because they cannot help themselves, they cannot help you as well. If you want uplifting in your life, then do not associate with negative people. If you do, they will always look for a way to bring you down. If on the other hand you cherished high ideals, then look for positive minded people to associate with. They are the ones who can contribute into your life positively. It is only positive people that can uplift you.

6.     6. Negative people are blocks on your way or path: The truth is that negative people are blockages or blocks on your path to success or towards achieving you purposes. In what ways do negative people serve as blockages on your path to success? They try to share their resistances with other people or persons around them. They sell their weak principles and low ideals with the persons they are influencing. They communicate their poor mentality and lack of self-belief with the significant persons they are influencing.

If they succeed in sharing or selling of these negative features that they have to others who gladly bought into their soft rules. They have succeeded in blocking the person or persons from achieve his or her dreams. Because it is very difficult for one to attain his or her goals when they exhibit the above negative qualities. If you must succeed, your strong principles are beyond bargain or they are not negotiable.

7.     7. If you must follow your path alone for a while do it: Having negative people on your path is a huge setbacks, or distractions. Why? Because, they are there to distract you from losing your focus. Instead of helping you to push ahead, they are only interested in bringing you down. In order to prevent negative people from shattering your highest purposes, it is better and smarter to take a lonely path to your success. If you must follow your path alone for a while in order to achieve your cherished purposes, it is better to do it. Do it now and not later.

8.     8. Nobody will run your race: Negative people cannot run their own race; neither can they help you to run your race. The race is yours and not theirs. So do not give them the chance to rule over you. If you do, you will live to regret it. Be always mindful of negative people. Their words can be very attractive to hear. Some kind of comments that negative people often used to manipulate their victims are, I cannot kill myself; enjoy yourself nothing spoil; treat yourself well; I do not want to suffer myself or I cannot come and kill myself etc. These are some of the slangs often used to discourage themselves and other people around them. You are the only one that can run your race and finish it. Nobody else will do it or can do it as or like you. Because the race is yours, be prepared to run it or finish it.

9.     9. Nothing can draw or pull you back except you: This success anthem is a reminder that nothing in life can draw you back from achieving your dreams except yourself. This means that there is nothing as powerful as you in terms of you achieving your success. Even negative people are not as stronger as you. But if you give negative people the chance or opportunities to influence you, they will seriously draw or pull you back. You are the one that will empower negative people to rule over you by accepting their principles and philosophies; if you do not know where you are going. But if you know where you are going and what you want to achieve, then you will remain powerful and nothing can bring you down.             

10.  10. They may not believe in your dreams: One big reason why you should not allow negative people to bring you down is that they may not believe in your dreams. You dreams may not make any sense to them. And because they have no dreams to chase and catch, they can do well to stop you from chasing your dreams as well. Negative people doubt themselves and what they can do. They can equally doubt you that you cannot achieve your own dreams. They are govern by weak principles and low ideals. That is the reason they cannot believe in your dreams. If you have a dream to catch and some persons are saying that you cannot achieve it, then you should know that they are negative in terms of their reasoning. 

11. 11. Stop over depending on other people: Over depending on people to solve your problems is really self-limiting. There are many things that other people cannot help you to achieve if you have no will of your own. Sometimes, the people you are trying to depend on may be negative and they cannot help as such. Because they are negative, they cannot serve as good counselors. Stop over depending on other people they may or can also shatter your dreams.                                          

To help you know what to do to prevent negative people from bringing you down, learn to have faith in yourself.