When Some One Brings More Pains To Your Life Than Happiness: 7 Things You Should Do

 

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When Some One Brings More Pains To Your Life Than Happiness: 7 Things You Should Do 



Friends are angels that add values to our lives. When your friends bring in more pains to your life than happiness, what should you do with such friends? The answer to the question is presented below:

1.      1  It is time to let them go: Letting your friend to go is based on the fact that he, or she brings more pains to you. It will not be proper to keep a friend who do not mean well for you. The more you hold unto such kind of friend, the more your pains keep increasing. To be on the safer side, make up your mind to let them go. This is one of the reasons you should not depend too much on others.  Let them go. Don’t think twice about it.

2.       2. Show them the door where they can exit: Do not just keep friends for keeping sake. Keep friends for friends’ sake. When the friend or friends you have or keep are not worth it, you do not need to over worry yourself, just show them the door where they can exit themselves out of your life. Do you need to be afraid of losing someone who does not worth it? No, you do not need to be afraid of losing such friends. You increase and gain your peace of mind when you show them the door where they can exit. It is better for you, if you do so.

3.       3. Do not take them serious: when you are sincere in your friendship and your friends on the other hand are not sincere, you should gradually begin to pull away yourself out of their lives. Do not take friends who are not sincere too serious. Because, you can or may experience regret and the breaking of heart. Friends that bring more pains into your life are not worthy of you. They are more of enemies.

4.       4. Don’t pity them: The more you pity your friends who increase your pains, the more your pain keep increasing. You do not need to pity people just because you are nice or kind. You only pity people based on the bad conditions you meet them. Such as poverty, health, loss of a loved one and other sad conditions. But where the reverse is the case as with your friends who bring more pains into your life, you don’t need to pity them. Stop pitying people anyhow. Pity people based on certain considerations that will not spoil or hamper your peace of mind. 

5.       5. Avoid them: one way to keep those your friends who bring in pains into your life is to avoid them. MINIMIZE THE CONTACTS. The more you learn to avoid them the better for you. Your peace of mind will become stable and balanced. Try much as possible to avoid those friends who increase your pains. What are friends for? You keep friends to reduce your pains and not for them to bringing more or add to it. When your friends are gaining from you and in return, they bring more pains into your life, the best thing to do is just to avoid them big time, nothing spoil.

6.       6. Don’t hide your feelings, tell them the truth: Sometimes, people hide their feelings from their friends when it is not too necessary or important to bring such feelings out. But when it comes to the situation where your friends are bringing more pains into your life, one way to solve the problem is to let them know what is on ground. You cannot keep hiding your sad feelings all of the time. It is time to let loose the feelings. Tell them the truth they need to know so that they can correct themselves and if their actions persist after telling them your mind, do the next on the list.

7.      7.  Break the relationship: Breaking of a relationship is the last option to do when your friend or someone bring in more pain into the relationship. There is no two ways about this. After all, relationship is not a do or die affair. If things aren’t going well as plan as in the case of someone or your friend bringing in more pains into your life, just break the relationship to keep your peace.                                                                                                                                                                

 

The above things to do is good enough when someone brings more pains than happiness into your life.


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