The 11 Implications of Living Your Life the Way You Want It

 

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The 11 Implications of Living Your Life the Way You Want It

 

Everyone choose the way he or she wants to live his or her own life. That is the freedom, people have. The freedom to choose what you like or love. Most people do not know the implications that are attached to their choices or to the choice they often make. Some of these implication are negative in their nature and can be depressive as well. Below are some negative implications of wanting to live your life the way you want:

1.      1. You may fail on the way: As people make their choices on daily basis, the tendency to pick the wrong path or route is very high. People choose what they love to choose. They choose the lifestyles that they love or interest them without minding the effects or impacts on their lives. The way you live your life determine your success or failure. In most cases, the way people live their lives often draw them back or pull them down. Most people always fail because they choose to live their lives the way they want. The way you want to live your life may not be the best for you. And if it is not the best, but you keep living it all the same, what will happen? Definitely, you will fail along the path or route. Reference: The prodigal son.

2.      2. It may encourage or demotivate you:  Your choice of lifestyle can be a motivator or demotivates you. The way you want to live your life, if it is not the right way, it demotivates you in doing certain things. What you are supposed to be doing, you will no longer have interest in doing them. I keep hearing people saying, ‘I can’t kill myself’. What do they mean by this? It means by the way they want to live their lives, they are not interested in inconveniencing themselves to gain what they love to gain. The way you want to live your life can make you become lazy and lazy indeed.

3.      3. You may waste time on less important or lesser things: The way some people want to live their lives may leads them to spend much of their time on less important things or lesser things. People go after the way they want to live their lives. They do only the things that pleases them. They go after only what makes them happy and comfortable. Do you know that there many things that would make you happy and comfortable but will also make you cry later and filled your mind and heart with regrets? If you do not know before, know it now. Spending much of your time on lesser things would not help you to achieve your dreams.

4.      4. You may avoid doing what is or are demanded or required of you: As a result of the way, some people want to live their lives, they will often, avoid wanting to do certain things. In most cases, they end up doing the opposite of what they are expected to be doing. What is actually demanded of them will not be taken seriously any longer. They will begin to see the work as option. That is if they like, they will do it but if they do not like it, they will ignore or forget about it completely. One of the reason why some people do ignore and forget their duties or works or responsibilities is that they are living their lives the way they want.

5.      5. You may end up aiming lower than expected: Very often, most people who want to live their lives the way they want, aim lower than they expect. People go after what they are aiming. That life that you choose to live is an aim. It may be high or higher if positive, and low or lower if negative. People aim lower unknowingly to them. All these happen just because, one choose to live his or her life the way he or she wants. Sometimes, people aim at illusions. Your illusions are lower than your realities. Your illusions affect your realities negatively. The more you go after your illusion, the less you achieve your realities.

6.      6. It may prevent or hinder you from upholding higher ideals and strong guiding principles: The lifestyle of a person determine whether he, or she is practicing or upholding a lesser or higher ideals. Higher ideals help the individual to grow the more who practice them. But lesser ideals cannot uplift the person or the organization that upholds them. The way you choose to live your life can be quite enjoyable at the short run or short-term and can also spell doom for you in the long run or long-term. One need to be mindful of the fact that, the way you choose to live your life can encourage you the more to uphold a lesser ideals if negative or to uphold a higher ideals if positive.

7.      7. It can weaken your attitude: Attitude can be positive and negative. Our lifestyles can either promote or demote our attitude. Our attitude if negative, poor, weak, soft, bad, unhealthy can pull or draw us back. But if positive, rich, strong, tough, good, healthy, push us forward and ahead of others whose attitude are poor. It is your attitude that takes you to your dreams or takes you away from your dreams. Attitude is the king. It shapes and molds the individual person’s life. The way you want to live your life if negative, will weaken your attitude.

8.      8. It can or may leads to self-defeating: As beautiful and interesting a particular way you want to live your life is or sound, if negative, will leads to self-defeating. Self-defeating is the act of doing things which are contrary to the things you are supposed or expected to be doing that bring you closer in achieving your dreams. They are activities that do not promote your cherished goals but you may like or love them. They make you happy and comfortable but unfortunately, they will not help in attaining your cherished purposes. For instance, self-gratification may or can leads to self-defeating.

9.      9. It can bring about self-pity: Self-pity is the feeling or expressing sorrow or pity for oneself. It is to be shameful of yourself. It is a reason or cause of pity, grief, or regret; a thing to be regretted. The kind of life that one wants to live, can bring about self-pity, if negative. Self-pity is often the result of not doing the things you should have done. Like the prodigal son, he regretted living the way he lived previously. He pity himself for wasting his opportunity at a particular time of his life. So, do not just live your life the way you want, first of all, take your time to analyze your prefer style. Before venturing into it. Remember, your lifestyle can harm you as well.

10.  10. It can give room or create chances for self-deception or deceit: The way some people want to live their lives can give room for self-deception to flourish in their lives. Sometimes, people choose to live their lives based on deceptions or deceit. Self-deception is a misconception that is favorable to the person who holds it. It is the act of deceiving oneself. Most often, the way, you want to live your life can be self-deception in itself. You are only trying to follow what you like or love even when they may not be too necessary in your life.

11.  11. It may encourage laziness: Laziness can be both a contributing factor why some people are choosing to live their lives the way they want and the way you live your life can give more power to laziness to dominate your life. The way you want may be or may not be the right way. It can make you to be lazy, if negative or unhealthy. Some people prefer to over-pamper themselves than to do the needful. The way you want to live your life can hinder your progress and block your chances of catching your dreams. When you are lazy, you cannot do what are required or expected of you to do.                                                                                                                                                  

Because you have dreams to catch and places to go, you cannot just be living your life the way you want. So, one need not live his or her life the way he or she wants but according to some laid down rules of conducts or behaviors.