Most People are failing in Life Because They Do These 8 things

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Most People are failing in Life Because They Do These 8 things.

There are many things in life people do that fail them consciously or unconsciously. This write up is intended to bring to the fore some things that contribute or are responsible to why most people are failing in life. Below are some critical factors that correspond with the heading or title:

1.      1. They talk failure: Most often, most people often busy themselves talking failure. Each and every time they talk, they talk failure. What you often talked about matter a lot because they shape your behavior and key actions. Our words are power and as such, we should be mindful of what we are saying about our lives. For instance, you will hear comment like, if God wants me to succeed, I will succeed. This is a negative talk. 

If God does not wants you to succeed, who will? Of course, God wants you to succeed. The question here is, as an individual, do you want to succeed? Will should not bring God into our negative talks because just as an individual, or a person depends on God, God also counts on the person as well. Another failure talk that is also common is this comment, I cannot kill myself.

Most young people this day are fond of saying this. It has become part of their social talks. If you cannot kill yourself to make your success a reality, who will? Nobody. Stop talking failure. It is not good for your wellbeing.      

2.       2. They fear failure: Most people fear failure. Sure, they do. Nobody wants to fail and yet, they are not ready or prepared to do the needful. The fear of failure makes most people to do the things they ought not to do. Some will fail to make an attempt while some others will prefer to do the negative of what they supposed to do. Many people love to cut corners because of this fear of failure.

The singular reason why most people are afraid of failure is that they do not try. Those who are trying do not need to fear failure because people fail when they do not try. The fear of failure has made most people to become irresponsible to themselves. Failure for our information is a learning tool. It helps you to learn from your mistake and push forward.

At this point, what is the needful? The needful is the doing of what is expected of you to do or what you are supposed to do. It is taking a step or an action that is meaningful. It is doing the right things in the right manners or properly and at the correct time. Until, you do this needful, you will always fail. Stop fearing failure.

3.       3. They believe in failure: Many people believe in failure that is why they talked about it and feared it. And then accepted it. Thus, making failure a very big issue in most people lives. Failure affects people actions negatively. What one or you believe can save you and can equally kill you. Some people already have accepted that they will fail if they do not use the negative means.

This also prevent them from using the right means. For example, some students prefer to use malpractices to pass their examinations both in internal and external. Why? Because, they already accept in their mind that it will be very hard for them to pass their exams without using one form of malpractice or the other.

When you believe in failure, you will end up not being able to do what you should be doing. The more people believe in failure, the more they fail because they become handicapped or powerless in dealing with it. Stop believing in failure.

4.       4. They think of failure: The way we think affect us positively or negatively. The way you think, the way you are. You become what you repeatedly think about. If you think positively, you will act positively but if you think negatively, you will also act negatively. Most often, most people think about failure and that is why they talked about it. Your thinking and your words go together, they are both partners in progress or in failure.

People think about failure that is why they do not like to take a step or action in certain situations or circumstances. Sometimes, some people avoid or dodge or evade their duties or responsibilities or fail to perform their duties why because, they are thinking of failure.

The more people think of or about failure, the more they will always ignore their duties, the more they will pay less attention to a task, the more they will give in to unnecessary complains, the more they tend to lose hope and the more they finally give up on their dreams.

5.       5. They copy others negatively: One other factor that causes most people to fail in life is that, they love copying other people negatively. You do not need to copy people but you can learn from them through filtering and behavior analysis. You judge or analyze the actions of the people around you to see whether their actions is good or negative. What may be good for you, may not be good for another person. What you will not accept, another person may accept it as genuine.

People actions are based on certain principles they hold on to and these principle may be weak or strong; low or high as the case may be. For example, if Mr. A is operating or active based on a low principle he is holding to and Mr. B or Mrs. C is copying Mr. A, what do you think will happen to either of them? They will definitely fail if they copy him blindly.

The best they can or should do is to learn from his actions and see whether those actions or behavior are beneficial or not. There are certain behaviors that are attractive to the sight but are not needed for proper growth and can demote your progress or success. Stop copying people negatively because all you need is you.

6.       6. They act wrongly or negatively: On a daily basis, most people are often inclined to act negatively but thinking it is okay. They engage in activities which are more of self-defeating actions or activities. Some of the actions are based on self-illusions or deceptions. Most people tend to like activities that are simple, pleasant, and tasteful and make them happy and comfortable while those activities which are difficult, unpleasant, distasteful or depressing and make them unhappy and uncomfortable, they disliked and as such, people tend to abandon or ignore such activities.

For our information, both the simple and difficult activities must be performed to get to success. In most cases, success is more achieved when the difficult tasks or duties are carried out or executed. Most people are not doing what they ought to be doing or they are doing what they ought not to do. Until you stop acting wrongly or negatively, you cannot achieve much.

7.       7. They are lazy: Laziness is one of the major reason for why most people are failing in life. Laziness has caused more harm than good to people in the sense that people often love to place their pleasure first before their duties. It is this factor that make or caused people to also ignore or forget their duties. It is said that, if you work hard, you will become a leader but if you are lazy, you will never succeed.

How true is this? Very true. You cannot achieve success when you are lazy. Laziness makes people to always think negatively, accept false impossibilities and focus on obstacles. As a result of this, they took pleasure in actions or activities that come with short-term pleasure. Laziness make people to be lazier and are not able to cope with adversities. Stop being lazy, no work; no food. Hard work pays.

8.       8. They are not prepared to face the challenges that life throws at them: Most people are not always prepared to face the storms of their lives, and that is why they quickly or easily give up on their dreams or highest purposes. If you not prepared, you cannot win because life battles are very hard and soft people cannot win such battles. You need to be always prepared or ready to face your challenges and be prepared if bidden, to return as many times as required to get the most depressing or distasteful work or duty done. If you do not prepared, you are preparing to fail. Anyone who prepares never fail. Get up and get prepared for your battles for no one will fight them for you.                                                                                                                                        

Failing in life to a large extend is a matter of choice. So, choose wisely.