6 Things That Make or Cause Most People to Get Tired of Chasing Their Success

 

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6 Things That Make or Cause Most People to Get Tired of Chasing Their Success

As people chase after success, they become tired on the way due to some factors or causes. What gives this insight is that people tend to complain a lot or much about their works or duties. Below are some of the things that make or cause people to get tired of chasing success:

1.      1. Fear of pains: Pain is anything that causes trouble; a source of unhappiness. It is an emotional distress; a fundamental feeling that people try to avoid. Nobody like or want pain. Pain is the burden or the suffering or toiling or struggle or labor or the fights or wars or battles you are going to experience or face in the journey to success. It is the works or duties, or responsibilities to be carryout or done to get what you want.

The more people fear pain or pains, the more they stop chasing their dreams. And the more they regret why they stop chasing their dreams. It often said that, no work, no food; no pain, no gain; no cross, no crown……. So it goes. The truth is that people do not want to feel the burden or the pain but are more interested in experiencing the profits or the gains or the benefits.

This is why many people cannot postpone their self-gratification in favor of the long-term gain or profit. Until you feel the pain, you would not gain the profits. Your works are your pains and your foods are your gains. So, you pains are necessary or essential for your growth.

2.      2. Laziness:  Laziness is the inactivity one experience as result of dislike for work. Laziness is not a virtue. It is a vice. Laziness is another distraction. It focus more on experiencing pleasure than the doing of a work or duty. Laziness makes some people happy and comfortable. It gives people short-term pleasure. But causes more harm than good. Most times, laziness is responsible why some people take joy in ignoring or forgetting their duties or responsibilities or avoid some distasteful or depressing duties or works or responsibilities.

You become tired of chasing after your success when laziness is really governing your life. You no longer have the will or the power to do what you are required or expected to do. Laziness may give you short-term pleasure but will not help you to succeed. Laziness makes you act against this: ‘Success must be pursue, the more you chase it, the more you catch it. And thus, you experience this instead: the less you chase success, the less you catch it’. This is a golden rule.

Laziness is an enemy of perseverance or persistence. No matter how tired you may be. To get to your success, be consistent in what you are supposed to do. Hard works pays.

3.      3. Fear of success: Do you know that people fear success just the way they fear failure? Yes of course they do. The fear of success is harming or limiting most people in doing the needful. Why are people always afraid of success? People are afraid of success because they do not want to try the more. But I learned that success wants you to try even the more or even harder. People get tired of their success because of the demand of success. And what is the demand of success?

The demand of success is that I must had to try in order to be happy with myself. The more I or you try; the more I or you succeed. And the less I or you try; the less I or you succeed. So, people get tired of success because they are fearful of success. In relation to point number two above, success carries pains with it. You must bring your effort to bear in what you are supposed to do or in what you should be doing. No effort, no success.

4.      4. Fear of failure: Everyone is craving for success. No one wants to fail that is why they feared failure. People fear failure because they do not know much about failure. Because of the fear of failure, people have stop chasing their dreams. They are no longer interested in chasing their dreams. They are tired of chasing their dreams due to the fear of failure. Most people do not know that they only fail because they stop trying. The fear of failure has done more harm than good to people.

People fail only if they do not try. The more you try, the more you succeed. And the less you try, the more you fail. The following will help people to stop being fearful of failure:

(I) Failure is a process or journey of life

(II) Failure is not an in itself

(III) Failure is the beginning of success

(IV) Failure is the highway to success

(V) Failure is the mother of success. A quick reminder, you only fail if you do not try. For heaven help those who help themselves.

5.      5. Lack of faith or self-mistrust: one reason why people get tired in chasing their success is the problem of lack of faith or self-mistrust. The opposite of faith is doubt or distrust or mistrust. Faith strengthens you while doubt weakens you. To do any great thing or right thing or good, you need to summon the faith to it. But where faith is lacking and doubt or distrust took the show or the better of you, you will avoid or stop doing those things you are supposed to be doing or what you are expected to do.

You will become tired of chasing your success and you will begin to do the things that you are expected not to do or ought not to do. That is you will stop chasing your success. Having self-mistrust is a big block and distraction on one’s way or path to success. Self-mistrust or self-doubt is one of the reason most people try to avoid doing the right things and stop chasing their success or get tired doing so.

Lack of faith or Self-mistrust takes away your power or strength to do the right things and makes you get tired of going after your success and focus your mind on the soft things which will not stress you up or bother you much. Having faith in yourself and in you success compels you no matter how tired you may be to keep going.

6.      6. Lack of hope: Hope is the unshakable confidence that you have towards achieve your desire. It is the expectation of the reward or profits if what is required of you is done or after the work has being done. Hope enables you to do what you are supposed to do in expectation of positive outcome. You belief and trust yourself that after finishing the work or the race, you are going to be rewarded. This keeps you moving and moving steadily.

Having hope inspires you to stay on course and focus your mind more on what you are to do to achieve your desires or purposes. If you have on hope, it simply means you are dead. Hope helps you not be frustrated in spite the challenges or difficulties you will meet on your path.

Each time you see people become tired or get tired of chasing their success, it means that there is lack of hope in them. Lack of hope is a negative wolf in you. It is one of the demons in you that prevents you from going after your success.                                                                                                                                                                                 

If you hear someone saying I am tired, I can’t kill myself. It means the person is tired of chasing his or her own success. And one of the discussed point above may be responsible for such attitude.