2 Bitter Truth Ladies Need To Know For Surviver

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Over the years, I have seen ladies do things that are not needed in their lives. Many of them take their lives for granted. It is very important to let them know these bitter truth concerning their future and life generally. I have been opportune to observed many ladies after their initial secondary education, many of them may not be opportune to further their studies and yet many would not be interested in learning a skill or a trade.                                                                                                                         

As I keep searching why the display of this type of attitude, I came to discover that many ladies exhibit this behavior because of the below reasons. The two bitter truth that ladies need to be mindful of if they must survive are listed and explain thus:                                                                                                     

(1). They depend on men to survive: Most ladies tend to depend on men to survive. This one of the reason why they are not interested to learn a trade or skill. Some of them, when you raise the issue of handwork or certain skill for them to acquire, it seems as if you are insulting them. This dependency has resulted in them not having any attraction for a skill or trade. It is so sad that, many of them keep wondering from place to place without no aim.                                                                               

 Depending on men for your comfort does not worth it. It is killing. At the end when there is no man to depend upon, many become vulnerable and sad and begin to summit to self pity. Do not depend on any man for comfort, you can be disappointed when you do not expect.                                                                                                                               

 (2). They depend on their physical beauty: Most ladies depend on their physical beauty or attraction to performed the magic for them in getting a rich man. For many of them, their physical beauty is strong enough to make them achieve whatever they want.                                                                       
The average lady is thinking that her beauty will save her, but unfortunately,the opposite is the case. What is lacking here is attitude. Do not depend solely on your physical beauty.When the physical beauty is no longer there, desperation set in.                                                                                                                                                         
 Effects of depending solely on men :                                                                                                         (1). Most ladies who depend on men for their comfort often lose their sense of value.                      (2). They may be abuse by some men.                                                                                                 (3). They develop low self esteem.                                                                                                       (4). They become vulnerable to certain crime.                                                                                    (5). They demean themselves                                                                                                                   

 Way forward: The solutions to this problem discuss above are:                                                      (1).  Have a dream.                                                                                                                                    (2). Develop yourself.                                                                                                                           (3). Learn a skill or trade.                                                                                                                    (4). Belief in yourself.                                                                                                                           (5). Pick a good role-model                                                                                                                 

. Thanks for reading hope your life has been touched in many respect. Every lady is unique.

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